Uncover the hidden rules of a man's love scene. I haven't called you in 7 days to show that I'm not interested in you

How to determine whether the man you love is interested in you or not, and how to determine if there is any drama between you and him? Uncover the hidden rules of men's love affairs:

1、 7 days of no response means I'm not interested in you

You had a great conversation with the man you love on your first date, but after the date, there was a silence that made you very puzzled. Why didn't he call you? After seven days of silence, perhaps you helped him find the following excuses: 'He really wanted to call me, but he lost my number', 'He's really too busy'. Dear, don't be kind enough to help him make up excuses, and don't waste time waiting for him to suddenly come back and call you. A man knows the rules of the game better than a woman. If he doesn't call you within three days, it means you're not the opposite sex he likes. Within five days, it proves that he doesn't want to fall in love with you over time. Seven days, I'm sorry, he's really not interested in you.

2、 Likes to play with human evaporation

The third hidden rule is often playing "evaporation". Men are sometimes willing to remain aloof from women in this way: they conquer you with a diligent and unrestrained attitude, making you unable to forget their vitality and humor. You can't help but miss him, but he seems to have evaporated and has time not to contact you. When he reappears, he remains as witty and adorable as ever. Even if you have heard that he has a bad reputation, you can't help but believe him. He can handle anything you say and make you feel happy with him. Even if he said recklessly that I just like women, you think this is his genuine and shining personality.

3、 Reply message exceeds 30 words

Hidden Rule 2: If the reply message exceeds 30 words, there will definitely be a play. Don't think he wants to make full use of this ten cents to say so many words to you happily, right? This type of man is usually not good at taking the initiative, but as long as you speak up, they always have time, you need help, and they happen to have friends in this area. Even with your usual greeting, he expressed his opinion. In addition to replies that exceed 30 words, they also like to send you the last sentence with a question mark. As long as you don't want to end it, they want to send a text message until dawn. Obviously, he wants to further socialize with you.

4、 Likes to play double-dealing

He always stands out in your emotional world, full of wonder. Although sometimes you may realize that you are not his only one, but infatuation with him is incurable. Because it's easy for men to be double-faced. So you must not take it seriously. You must learn to hide your desires and emotions, maintain your mystery, and this will make you more attractive. The more urgent the other party is, the more indifferent you need to be. Rather than worrying about himself, it's better to make him anxious.

5、 Cold treatment breakup

Why do men choose this way of breaking up? One reason is that it is an easy way to escape. Breaking up in person or over the phone is undoubtedly a form of pain. Who wants to argue? Most men are unwilling to engage in emotional confrontation with women. For men, breakups are countless unanswerable 'why' and tons of women's tears. They are at a loss about this, so they believe that avoiding arguments is more advisable for both parties. There are also some practical reasons why men are unwilling to break up with women directly. They leave room for themselves to return to your life when they are lonely.

6、 No promises will be made vertically or horizontally

No promises will be made vertically or horizontally. Men often do not easily commit to not taking responsibility. A man doesn't want to be too troublesome. He will try his best to please you and win your favor, but he never promises lightly and always leaves a way out for himself. When you see signs of irresponsibility from the other party, immediately curb your romantic thoughts. You can be friends with him, but never have any illusions about him. The person who truly wants to have a family with you will definitely take you to their home, meet their parents, relatives, and friends, and discuss your future dreams and paths with you, instead of just evading words and giving up.

7、 Lovers, not close friends

At first, he will be very interested in your life, work, and friends, but when he becomes familiar with everything about you, he hopes to distance himself a bit, even if he is as distant as a lover. At this point, the woman, on the contrary, likes to keep a close eye on trivial matters with her boyfriend. Don't let him know too much about your details, a woman with secrets is a charming woman. Do you want him to say 'Dear, I want to be quiet for a while' or 'Baby, tell me something interesting happened to you at work today'?

(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)