Post Date December, 03 2023
What causes women to cheat? It is not a rare thing for us to cheat, because the incidence of extramarital affairs is increasing in our life, which has become a key problem threatening marital happiness. If women have some bad emotions, it is easy to lead to their sexual cheating.
1、 Loneliness
A wife said to us, "As soon as I got home, my husband Zhang fiddled with his computer endlessly. One day when I went to the bookstore, my books and groceries fell on the ground when I tried to get my wallet. A kind man helped me lift the book and asked, 'Oh, do you like classical novels?' A week later I went to the bookstore and happened to meet him again.
The next day we talked for more than three hours. Things always go from one side to the other, but to be honest, it is not sex but conversation that promotes the development of our relationship. For Zhang, I'm just a reproductive machine, and that's all between us. This loneliness is unbearable. "
If a person lacks intimate feelings in life, if he can't find someone to share the big and small things in life. Loneliness will arise spontaneously. This loneliness is precisely the main factor that causes extramarital love.
2、 Monotonous
A man said, "Although I have been thinking about other girlfriends for 11 years, I never really wanted to find an affair. One night, because my wife was out for a party alone, a woman invited me to her place for a drink or two. At first, I was shocked and nervous, and told her that I couldn't go. But that thought kept stimulating me. Two days later, I called her, and it happened."
The temptation of external stimuli is the second common cause of infidelity between couples. After five or six years of marriage, the enthusiasm began to cool, and daily life fell into a fixed way. Once free couples also had children, and sexual life was always carried out in the same way at the same time.
On the contrary, extramarital love provides many risky factors: flirting, chasing, danger, released emotions and fear of being found.
Both men and women are likely to cheat, so mental health experts believe that in order to better avoid this situation, you need to pay attention to your own psychological adjustment and avoid the appearance of bad emotions, so that you can better defend your marriage happiness.
