Post Date December, 03 2023
I gave up the opportunity to work at a high salary in Beijing and went back to the provincial capital with him, simply to be with him. At that time, I always felt that he was everything to me, and I couldn't live a day without him.
After returning to the provincial capital, we worked hard to get admitted to the county's public institutions. However, my husband's life in the workplace was not easy, and the leaders always looked down on him, but he was actually very kind to me. At that time, I didn't put much effort into his affairs. Later, when I went to find the leader, he actually made very excessive demands. After I told him about it when I got home, he was initially very angry, but later he even advised me to go find the leader.
Really, I can give up anything for my husband, so I was led to hide the rules for him. After two years of hard work, he rose steadily and his career flourished. However, our relationship has been deteriorating day by day. He often has excuses not to come back, and his attitude towards me has also changed significantly. He often accuses me of wearing a green hat on him and always uses that thing to stimulate me.
This matter has always been a pain in my heart. If it weren't for him, how could I have been led by hidden rules? In fact, many times I have thought of leaving him, but over the years, I have put too much effort into him, and I am not willing to let go like this.
That day, my best friend found out that my husband was going to open a house with a girl. When I questioned him, he admitted openly and even said it was just a scene. Upon hearing his words like this, my heart broke and I realized how foolish I had been over the years. Countless times I have wanted to use infidelity to retaliate against my husband, but I am worried that this will only make me more injured. Now, what should I do?
Reply:
It can only be said that women in love have zero intelligence and can give up anything for their so-called happiness. You can give up your bottom money to give everything for him, but your husband doesn't feel guilty about you, instead he despises you and accuses you. If you still want to have a good life with your husband, then communicate with him well and let him understand that having an affair is just a small snack, and dinner is more important.
Don't use cheating methods to retaliate against him, because this may become an excuse for his husband to get rid of you, let alone doing so will only lead to a more embarrassing situation.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
