Post Date December, 02 2023
Falling in love is a very painful thing. Some people can come out, but some people always flip in that alley, even giving their own lives. Falling in love is an experience in our lives, which is valuable but not worth losing. When you fall in love, you can learn to come out from the following methods.
Cut it all: The dream lover cannot become a reality, and the best outcome is, of course, to leave as soon as possible. Emotions are like a dead knot, and those that cannot be resolved must be cut off. "Shear" will definitely bleed, but the faster and sharper the action, the lighter the injury. Time can soothe everything. In a few weeks, your wounds must heal. Never lie down and die for one person.
Kick it off: After a broken relationship, negotiation is of no avail, only prolonging the pain. If you still think the other person is perfect, please take a closer look at how perfect they are. "You list the unacceptable aspects of her personality and record the reasons why" without her "you could live better.". Every time you feel dizzy and dizzy, take a look at his or her guilt again and firmly kick her out of your world!
Everything is like a dream: Don't think that losing love is a matter of losing face, it's no big deal, let alone "losing face.". "You can't be together anymore, of course you have to be apart, and you should be proud of your decision.". At the same time, you should firmly believe that the previous love was only a dream, and that a broken love is a dream.
No matter whether you are affectionate or not, don't be tempted by desire. Sometimes you have hallucinations, as if the nightmare had passed and everything could be okay again. If she leaves, she has already demonstrated her attitude with facts, which is not worth your effort to change anything. If you continue to socialize, you are like being stuck in mud and unable to extricate yourself.
Naked: Even if a woman proposes to break up, she likes to say, "If we were destined, we might be together again." Don't be fooled. The subtext is, you poor man, don't be discouraged, I may need your help! Immediately acknowledge that your relationship has ended, and a naked chest is always refreshing.
Never be afraid: You have to tell yourself the truth: People are often afraid, and when you pursue them, you are afraid of losing them; When you get her, you will be afraid that she will not be attached to empathy. After the volcanic eruption of a lovelorn relationship, you need to relax mentally and then relax again. The so-called courage is nothing more than that.
Silence: From the first day after a breakup, you must decide to shut up. Although kind friends surround you and tell you about their shortcomings to comfort you. At this time, you must not speak up and compromise, damage his or her reputation, or at least force yourself to "deny". The compassion of everyone can only make your wounds even greater, and the most serious thing is that you will become the object of compassion. Pretending not to care doesn't make any sense, but staying silent is Shi Bijin Jian!
Once in a lifetime: Maybe you think this kind of thing always happens to you. Don't believe it, unless you meet the same type of person every time, and the bad luck won't come to you alone. If you admit that luck plays a very important role in this kind of thing, hold on and think about how many falls you had before you learned to walk?
Having said so many things, in fact, the key is to be strong. Except for yourself, no one can take the place of you to come out of the shadow of lovelorn love!
