Post Date December, 03 2023
Recently, my wife often goes on business trips to attend training or lectures in other places. Although she always truthfully tells me where to go and what arrangements to make, I always feel uncomfortable.
Which women will make their husbands feel in crisis? Here we summarize three types of wives. Look, are you not one of them?
Crisis wife No.1: leave smiling faces to men other than her husband
In 2003, I was admitted to the civil service, and my wife, Swallow, opened a coffee shop. During the period when she just opened, she was as busy as a top, working in the store from morning to night all day. When I got home, I was so tired that I looked tired after talking to me a few more words. I understand her hard work very much, and I am also moved by her hard work in starting a business. I always bear her cold shoulder alone. However, two years later, the coffee shop has been on the right track, and the business is good, and any problems such as management need not be solved by her. She still spends more time outside and less time home, even on weekends.
As a husband, I am puzzled by her behavior.
One night, I went to the cafe while buying a snack for my son. It was that night that I learned how lively my wife was as the female owner of the coffee shop. As soon as I entered the door, I saw her sitting at a large table surrounded by a group of men and talking excitedly. I sat down in a dark corner and watched her talking and laughing with a group of strange men from a distance. Looking at her smiling face through the dim light, I suddenly felt a particularly uncomfortable strangeness. Which of the energetic, dimpled woman in front of me is my wife?
After sitting for more than ten minutes, she found me, so she came to say hello and explained to me that those were old customers in the store. I couldn't help saying, "It seems that I am not as good as your guests." She immediately snuggled up very sensitively, squeezed out a tired smile and said, "You are still jealous." I felt even more uneasy and felt that she was guilty.
Later, I often used an excuse to go to the coffee shop and found that she often sat with strange men and talked and laughed. After paying attention, it seemed that she could not see which one she was particularly close to. I think I'm useless. My wife's happiness and smiling face are left to men other than her husband. I can only bear the taste of it.
To lift the crisis "must kill plan":
1. In the face of a hot wife, the first thing a man needs to do is not to find out which man she is more intimate with, but to give himself confidence. Don't look at her vivid side and deny himself. A man will be broad-minded when he is confident.
2. Most of the wives who like to deal with strangers are outgoing. As a husband, if she feels depressed, they will not talk well over time. Occasionally, I have a single date with my wife; Or put her favorite lily on the pillow on the night of her late return; She plays more jokes when she is angry. Make fun of life, and your charm will come back.
3. Understand the wife and silently support her work. Finding a rare book on management or collecting some latest information about foreign coffee shops will make your wife moved by your care and care.
