Post Date December, 02 2023
As the saying goes, "One hundred years of cultivation leads to one boat crossing, and ten thousand years of cultivation leads to one pillow sleeping." Among the more than six billion men and women in the world, it is not easy for two strange men and women to go from being unfamiliar to being familiar to falling in love and then getting married. Therefore, we should cherish this hard earned fate and marriage.
With the soaring divorce rate, many couples are divorcing because of trivial matters that have become too much of a dispute. In fact, after marriage, many minor conflicts and shortcomings between men and women will be exposed, and it is inevitable that there will be noise, which is a common situation for newly married couples. As the underappreciated post 80s generation, their marriage is even more vulnerable and riddled with loopholes.
In fact, the post 80s generation is not as unruly as it appears on the surface. However, they are not frivolous or reckless, and they will constantly strive to adapt, tolerate, and accept before marriage. The ultimate goal of a long-term relationship between a husband and wife is to learn to respect and understand each other. Both parties need to strengthen their self cultivation, balance and be open-minded, and respect each other as if they were guests, so that the relationship will become deeper and deeper.
Most of the post 80s generation are only children, who are the "little emperors" of their families and have become accustomed to freedom in their own homes. But after marriage, all these shelves must be discarded to support the whole family. In getting along, we should understand and support each other.
Continuous communication
All conflicts and misunderstandings are caused by improper communication, so couples should communicate more and learn communication skills to achieve twice the result with half the effort. Communication is the best way to maintain emotional temperature. Both spouses should take the initiative to act as listeners. When a spouse has complaints or bitterness, just listen quietly and give a few words of comfort.
Mutual respect
Both spouses are unequal, with no distinction between high and low status. No matter how beautiful you are outside and how high your status is, when you return home, you are a husband, a wife, and nothing else. To listen to your wife is not to be afraid of her, but to respect her. "A big husband can bend and stretch, but what is it to" grovel "to his wife?"? Of course, women should not go too far.
Harmonious sexual life
Sex is very important in the relationship between a couple, and it is their most intimate behavior of exchanging emotions and expressing love. Therefore, we should try to ensure the harmony and stability of sexual life between couples, and we should not lack or hinder sex. Be sure to actively cooperate with each other and explore sexual issues together to make it more fulfilling and harmonious.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
