Post Date December, 03 2023
Most of the young people after the 1980s are only children, and the habit formed since childhood is self-centered. This mentality often leads to divorce. Therefore, it is particularly important for them to learn some ways to get along with each other.
So, what principles should the post-80s young people learn to get along with each other in order to provide guarantee for high-quality marriage? Today, the editor will give you a brief introduction.
First, correctly locate the home
Home is the safe haven when you are injured and lonely, and the place where your heart is concerned, not the battlefield where you fight. Therefore, as a family, couples should be tolerant and open-minded about each other. If they say a wrong word or do a wrong thing, they should learn to look at each other optimistically. Every couple's feelings are a piece of white paper. Cherish each other's feelings with your heart, and this white paper will become a wonderful picture of life. But if you don't cherish the feelings you already have, this white paper will be torn to pieces.
Second, two people change roles
In China, although there are many professional women now, subconsciously, the wife should do a good job in the logistics of the family, coordinate and deal with various contradictions and problems, and build a warm harbor for her husband; The husband should take more responsibility for family development, have a strong sense of career, work hard for his own career, and become a strong dependence of his wife and the umbrella of his family. Both wife and husband need each other's care and nourishment. Otherwise, when they reach middle age, they will be extremely haggard.
Third, learn to cherish each other
Parents are the most selfless and dedicated. They can suffer themselves and leave all good things to their children. Therefore, after getting married, especially after having their own children, we should know how to be grateful and cherish. Instead of continuing to be a willful little emperor and princess. Both your parents and each other's parents should know how to cherish them and take the initiative to contact their parents. If they are ill, take care of them more so that they can feel the importance and concern of their children for their parents.
No matter how spoiled you used to be at home, once you get married, you will be an adult and a person with many responsibilities. You can't be as headstrong as before marriage. Otherwise, you may not be happy all your life.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
