Extramarital love: why men are easy to cheat
First, easy to sleep with men
Some women have too casual sexual attitudes. Do you have to give it if a man wants you? This is not good. Especially the daughter's family. Men basically care about women's sexual attitude. You may not say hello to them if you give them.
Men's hymen complex is essentially about women's attitude towards sex, not that layer of membrane. Chinese men's fear of green hats is a traditional Chinese psychology for thousands of years, and is the weakest area of men's dignity. Don't just say that men are narrow. What's wrong with women valuing their own chastity? At least you are principled, not casual, which men will not expect.
The easier it is to get, the less men will cherish it. This is the characteristic of men. A man's interest in a woman will soon drop. Men can separate sex from love. Are you all right? When you give it to him, you think it's his person. You give it because of love, but he doesn't necessarily think so.
He will think that you are too easy to win. Is that true with other men? When he feels that your body can't be more familiar, his mind will probably move away. What do you think you did then? Can he be saved by scolding him for changing his mind and being a sex maniac? A woman's youth is only a few years. The result of her dedication to cohabitation is not necessarily marriage. If you don't lose your life, will you worry that he doesn't love you and pray every day?
Second, everything spoils men
There are many women who aspire to be a virtuous wife. For the sake of a man's career development, they don't want him to do anything, and they don't want him to wash towels once. It seems that my husband is not my husband, but a Bodhisattva in my family. It seems that the family is not for two people, but for you. I don't object to being a good wife, but is that man comfortable with your efforts? Will he love your efforts?
Is it normal that you don't come to see you when you are sick and he doesn't return your information? If it is the boss who sends it, will he ignore it? You cultivate men's inertia and neglect of you. You don't think so. You think you are noble.
Your rights and interests have been ignored and omitted by yourself. When you can't hold on to it, ask him for his indifference. He replied to you: Isn't it always like this? Choke you half to death. There is a process from quantitative change to qualitative change in men's change of heart. You should be careful not to be too laissez-faire. Men originally advocate freedom. If you open your mouth again, you will not be far from qualitative change.
Men often have a premonition before changing their minds, that is, they are outside the normal family life. If you don't go home, don't breathe, don't see people. Therefore, it is necessary to urge men to fulfill their family obligations and husband and wife obligations in order to prevent the gradual decline and to keep on the normal track. Not harsh, not lazy for his wife. This is to remind him that he is his husband, not staying in a hotel. Men are like children, but they can't be used to it. They are spoiled and turn back. You don't know when they started. You can do less, but you can't make him think that he has nothing to do at home. The smart woman thinks by herself.
Third, all worlds of women are closed for men
Once some women marry someone, it is like changing a dynasty. The sisters' small circle will not leave, they will not go out for dinner, they will not participate in the group tour, and they will not do their best in work. There is a sun in the sky and a man in the heart. Open mouth is the husband, and his friendship, family, work and life circle are all closed.
It seems that I'm sorry for my husband if I don't like this. Man is a social animal. You destroy your social role artificially day by day and tie all your joys and sorrows to a man. Don't you think how tired he is? You are bound to pester him with endless questions every day, and there will also be petty grievances and petty quarrels.
What he doesn't accompany you, doesn't care about you, wait, a woman's tears are like a bunch of grapes, his affairs are busy, how can he have the mood to talk with you every day? Are you tired after a long time? All of your negative emotions are caused by your lack of contact with the outside world.