Post Date December, 03 2023
Three people who must be forgiven in their lifetime
There was a famous conversation in which Han Shanzi asked Shi De, "How should I deal with someone in the world who slandered me, bullied me, humiliated me, laughed at me, despised me, and despised me?" Shi De said, "Just bear with him, let him, let him, avoid him, and ignore him. In a few years, you'll see him."
Such Zen language contains many philosophies of life, and tolerance is a very important philosophy of life.
We live in a prosperous and chaotic society, and we cannot avoid interpersonal relationships, let alone competition. Whether it's life or career, setbacks may accompany you.
Maybe it's not all your fault, but they may take the initiative to find you. What should you do in the face of these, complain or retaliate? I don't think this is a wise move.
The ancient saying goes, "Lack of wisdom, not much." It seems that being a tolerant person is a wise person, and one should treat at least three people with tolerance in one's life.
You must forgive yourself
In this world, "nine out of ten things in life are not as good as they should be." Without perfection, everyone makes mistakes and cannot achieve things, and it is impossible to gain everyone's recognition. When you immerse yourself in self blame for a long time, life will become pessimistic, and the same mistakes will not disappear, but will appear more frequently in your life. Therefore, you should always keep smiling, tolerate yourself, and never start over again.
You must forgive your enemies
In a highly competitive modern society, you don't know when you have an additional enemy. Especially in today's society, where the pressure of work is increasing, it is inevitable that some people have different ideas than you. They may talk about you behind your back, slander you, and treat you as an enemy. Even if you are an independent person, what should you do if trouble comes to you?
Do you make yourself as narrow-minded as your enemies, or do you always remember that some people have framed you? Treat it with a tolerant heart, because your anger can only affect yourself and your family, not others. You should be grateful to your enemies, because those ugliness can make you more cherish the beauty of life and make you more aware of what happiness you want?
And you have to forgive your friends
"Because on the way to happiness, the closer a friend may be, the greater the harm they will do to you. However, the harm a friend may do to you may be unintentional, or it may be an impulse aroused by jealousy.". So you have to forgive your friends because they have given you help and happiness. To learn tolerance is to be kind to yourself!
