Post Date December, 03 2023
Every day, many people enter the hall of marriage. Entering the hall is simple, but maintaining the happiness of marriage for a long time is difficult. Especially for women, who give so much to their loved ones, how can they ensure that they can love you consistently throughout their lives? This is a question worth considering.
There is a saying now that men love beautiful women at first glance, but love delicate women for a lifetime. So what is a delicate woman? It's probably a woman who is both beautiful inside and outside. In summary, at least the following points should be achieved:
1、 Improve EQ
We can often be friendly to our superiors, colleagues, and even strangers, but we just love to get angry with the closest people because we don't see each other. Otherwise, what is the difference between them and those who are not related to us? If he doesn't play this role, there won't be anyone else playing it in the world.
Psychologically speaking, most people only get angry with people who are safe. Because within that level of security, you subconsciously know that the other person will not leave you, and mischief is a form of dependence. But is his meaning in your life just a trash can? In addition to being willing to share your bad emotions, he also hopes to receive your warmth and love.
So, it doesn't matter if you occasionally "dump" him and feel unhappy, but if you only "dump" and don't manage it, it's easy to have problems. So controlling yourself and maintaining the initial tenderness towards him is the only way to preserve your relationship for a long time. This is also a question that many friends often ask: why have you gradually become an unreasonable person.
2、 Independent with own ideas
Nowadays, with the development of society, the pressure on people is also increasing. Men have already borne a lot of pressure when working outside, so women must rely on themselves. Only women who are independent and have their own ideas can not hold men back. A very thoughtful woman can at least have her own career and life value, rather than blindly relying on men.
Similarly, women need to learn the necessary knowledge in society and under pressure in order to become more mature and have a lasting appeal. At the same time, it can also make oneself stronger and braver. Women with ideas will not argue fiercely with men over money, and not everything can be measured by money.
Similarly, money cannot buy happiness, and relationships and marriages are not built on money. Therefore, thoughtful women understand what they want, rather than blindly pursuing fame and money.
3、 Respect and encourage men
Men all have a strong backbone, and although they are strong, they also have a very strong sense of self-esteem. The satisfaction of this self-esteem not only comes from the man himself, but also from the trust, affirmation, and motivation of the woman behind the man's beloved.
Smart women will find every way to motivate men, even in small matters, rather than comparing their weaknesses with the strengths of other men. Respecting and motivating men for a long time will lead to their hearts being tied by women.
Women should never ask men about their whereabouts all day long. This kind of distrust will only make people bored. It's better to give them more freedom, let them do their own things, and break into their own world.
4、 Opaque
Women always want to understand men, but in love, it is particularly important for men to understand women. The key is that you cannot constantly instill in him, but rather tickle his curiosity and make him interested in getting to know you. Just like the woman who can tell stories of one thousand and one nights, men are always curious about women with stories.
Women are not defeated by time, but by themselves. The secret of women who still shine through time is that they don't persist in a certain man, but in themselves. Persist in following your own path, no matter whether you have love or not, time will eventually turn them into endless legends.
