Post Date December, 02 2023
It has become the dream of many college students to get a marriage certificate after obtaining a graduation certificate. Under the economic crisis, the employment pressure is so great. If we can share the life pressure through marriage, it is also a "curve employment". However, experts pointed out that entering the marriage hall just after leaving school often has no sufficient preparation in psychology and economy, which will lay hidden dangers for future marriage life.
Girls prefer to be "married"
It is reported that the marriage registration information from all over the country shows that the number of young people aged 20 to 24 is significantly increasing among the registered marriage population. Nowadays, "married people" has become a new term in Baidu Encyclopedia, specifically referring to college students who marry after graduation.
According to a survey, among the people who choose to be "married", young women who have just left school and entered society account for the majority. They either marry their college sweethearts and fight together; Either they are not anxious to find a job after graduation, but are actively dating and looking for a future husband. They are more willing to focus on men who are successful and mature in their careers.
"Marriage" is not equal to curvilinear employment
Many women who rush to join the "marriage group" believe that getting married, having children, and being a full-time wife from school are also equivalent to curvilinear employment, which can not only solve their own employment problems, but also solve the major problems of their own lives, without any worries.
However, from a long-term perspective, such an approach may not be conducive to their long-term development. Shen Zheng, a professor of psychology at Peking University, told reporters that women are usually more dependent than men. When faced with difficulties, some women are not strong enough to face them, but to avoid and avoid problems. In order to avoid the pressure of employment, choosing to be a "married man" is a typical performance.
