There are introverts and extroverts in a person's personality, and sex is the same. Some people are introverted, while others are very open-minded. Introverted style refers to passive conservatism, while extroverted style refers to proactive behavior. Understanding one's own and partner's sexual style can help them adapt to each other or make corresponding improvements, enhance mutual understanding, and promote sexual harmony.
Sexual styles are different, as are the performance in bed and attitudes towards certain behaviors. For example, when it comes to a new sexual orientation, proactive people may think it's "exciting, I like it", while passive and conservative people may say, "If my partner suggests, I might try it." Have you ever had sexual activity outside of traditional sexual orientation, such as in the kitchen, bathroom, or even in the C area. Outdoor activities, etc. Positive people usually give a positive answer, while negative conservative people may say, "No, what if people see it
In addition, extroverted individuals with a sexual style may invite their partner to a sex toy store to choose sex toys, and may bravely engage in positions such as returning to a more wild position. Introverted sexual style, people tend to purchase sexual products online or wait for their partner to "innovate", preferring a gentle and reserved spoon posture.
A study in Australia found that personality differences can affect how often people have sex. Regardless of gender, extroverts have a higher frequency of sexual intercourse. Especially for men who are extroverted, emotionally stable, friendly and responsible, they have more sexual activities and more children, which makes them more "sexually happy". However, introverted individuals have their own advantages. They usually consider the other person's feelings more, do not make them uncomfortable, and are more focused, silent, and considerate during sex.
So, regardless of the sexual lifestyle, the sexual goal between partners is the same - a happy and harmonious sexual life. To achieve this, we need to follow some principles to reconcile different styles: when exploring new patterns, obtain the other party's consent; Understand your limitations and inform your partner; Find a balance between the other party's "sexual interests" and learn to compromise appropriately; Finally, understanding sexual life is very important for marital harmony, so we should communicate with your partner with an open mind, learn to express your sexual needs, and continuously participate in sexual life to achieve tacit understanding.