The truth I only understood after getting married is so classic

The truth I only understood after getting married is so classic!!!

It is said that marriage is the tomb of love, and it is true that there are always gaps before and after marriage. Here are the experiences summarized by countless predecessors. Whether you are married or not, let's learn from them.

Relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law:

Before marriage: I must be a good person, filial to me and his parents; After marriage: Being filial or not filial is not something I can do to change. It's because my parents think you're filial and you don't need to do anything. They think it's useless if you're not filial.

Before marriage: As long as you are clever and filial, you can please your parents-in-law, and everyone will be happy and peaceful; After marriage: Being clever can sometimes backfire, because human nature means that a horse is thin, so it's even more important to ride it. Keeping a distance is called self-defense. Otherwise, if one sees simplicity and weakness, he will write the four words "Please bully me" on his own head.

Before marriage: People's hearts change, treat others well, and they will repay you; After marriage: People's hearts cannot be changed back to dogs' hearts.

Before marriage: It is said that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is difficult. I think that I am delicate and should be able to handle it well; After marriage: The mother-in-law daughter-in-law relationship is too difficult.

Before marriage: You can be the daughter of your mother-in-law; After marriage: mother-in-law will always be mother-in-law, and mother will always be mother

Child:

Before marriage: If you have a child, just let him grow up healthy and happy, and don't put too much burden on the child; After marriage: The early bird catches the worm, and it's not enough for children to just play.

Before marriage: Although I don't like children, they will automatically have maternal love after birth; After marriage: Why do you keep crying? I can't stand it anymore. Can someone help me bring it to the kindergarten and give it back to me

Before marriage: raising children is difficult; After marriage: Why is it so difficult to raise children.

Before marriage: When you are young, learn more and strive for a career; After marriage: I wish I had a baby earlier.

Before marriage: I really want to have a group of children; After marriage: having children? Think big.

Economy:

Before marriage: What is money? Love comes first; After Marriage: What is Love? Giving you money is love, not giving it.

Before marriage: Love comes first, attitude determines everything; After marriage: Money comes first, and responsibility determines everything.

Before marriage: My money and my husband's money are both their money; After marriage: My money is my money, my husband's money is his money, and the money at home is the money at home

Before marriage: Husband can be relied on; After marriage: The economic foundation determines marital status.

Before marriage: Money is not everything; After marriage: No money is absolutely impossible.

Before marriage: Moonlight clan; After marriage: planned economy.

Before marriage: Don't frown on my spending money; After marriage: began to advise me to shop less online.

Before marriage: My husband's poor family has nothing to do with me. Without money, we can earn it slowly; After marriage: It's really difficult to earn money. The most difficult thing is not only that you can't count on your husband's family, but also that they rely on us to support them. Just start by finding a wealthy family.

Before marriage: After marriage, two people go everywhere to play and travel; After marriage: After marriage, traveling is a waste. Saving money to buy a house and have children is serious.

Husband and wife relationship:

Before marriage: I hope to have my own husband and children, and I want to be good to them; After marriage: The child is my own, but my husband doesn't mean it's not. Therefore, children should be well treated. If their husbands fail, they will become white eyed wolves.

Before marriage: Like to cover the same quilt when lying together; After marriage: It's better to cover your own quilt and sleep well.

Before marriage: What is the most expensive and harmonious thing in the 21st century! Therefore, two people should treat each other with respect and mutual understanding and accommodation; After marriage: Either the east wind prevails over the west wind, or the west wind prevails over the east wind.

Before marriage: The most important thing between two adults is rational communication; After marriage: Communication is just a matter of words. If you can bear it, you can bear it, and if you can't bear it, you can break up.

Before marriage: You can slowly transform your husband's bad habits; After marriage: Never try to transform him, the result will only worsen.

Before marriage: My husband is so kind, as long as I get angry, he will let me go; After marriage: Why doesn't he compromise and come over and apologize to me?

Before marriage: He's busy at work, and it's okay if I wash the dishes a few more times, as long as he treats me well; After marriage: Why does it always happen to me to wash the dishes?

Before marriage: I'm not afraid of the cold when sleeping in winter, someone will fan when it's hot in summer, someone will cook for me when I'm hungry, and no matter how late I get off work, someone will come to pick me up; After marriage: one electric blanket+one air conditioner+takeout+taxi=solve all problems.

Before marriage: Once married, there is always a shoulder to lean on, and a partner to face everything with you; After Marriage: Rely on? It's almost as good to be relied on I have always wondered whether he married to please his wife or his mother.

Before marriage: strive to be virtuous and be a good daughter-in-law; After marriage: Don't claim to know everything before marriage, otherwise it will be your job in the future and you won't be able to push it off.

Before marriage: to find a husband who is dutiful to his mother, a dutiful child must also be very good to his wife; After marriage: People are good to their mother, but not necessarily good to their wife! A man who is foolish and filial or has an oedipus mother is not worth it!

Before marriage: If you disagree with him, you may get divorced; After marriage: Make do with it.

Before marriage: The power of love is infinite, and marriage without love is impossible; After marriage: Love is insignificant for marriage, and a sense of responsibility is the guarantee of a strong marriage.

Before marriage: As long as there is him, suffering is also sweet; After marriage: I am so naive!

Self growth:

Before marriage: Lose weight in order to fall in love! Slim down! After marriage: In order to live a long life, we should not lose weight without any reason, and pay attention to maintenance.

Before marriage: I must tidy up and get rid of the habit of littering; After marriage: Is there any way to hide clutter without being so conspicuous?

Before marriage: I want to learn how to cook the most difficult, complex, and gorgeous dishes! After marriage: How can I make a delicious meal the simplest and fastest?

Before marriage: Do not believe that family background affects feelings; After marriage: I deeply realized that marriage should have wooden doors to wooden doors, bamboo to bamboo

Before marriage: thinking that marriage is between two people; After marriage: I realized that this is a matter between two families, no, it should be between two families.

Before marriage: Mom has some influence, everything depends on the conditions; After marriage: How wise is it for my mother not to let me marry this person? Are there any people who sell regret medicine?

Before marriage, love him well; After marriage, love yourself well.

Before marriage: I want to get married! After marriage: I want to live alone!

Before marriage: Have a bad life, leave! After marriage: If life is not good, how can I leave?

Before marriage: It doesn't matter if your mother-in-law is a widowed mother. It's not easy for her to raise her son through hard work. Be sure to treat her with filial piety; After marriage: The seven aunts and eight aunts in the family say the truth, you can't marry, you can't marry.

Before marriage: He will always love me; After marriage: Love is bullshit. If you want to cheat, you can't rely on a good man. It's still safest to rely on yourself.

Before marriage: Friendly drinking and full; After marriage: Love and marriage are really two things.

Before marriage: His parents don't understand reason, what the hell, it's not living with them! After marriage: When my daughter is looking for a partner, I must see what qualities his parents have!

Before marriage: Be a smart woman; After marriage: It turns out that silly women are only happy, even if they are not silly, they should also pretend to be silly.

That's too incisive, right? Do you have many feelings now? In fact, before and after marriage, you can have sweet love. The key lies in your attitude and practice. Parents, work hard for a better marriage!