Post Date December, 03 2023
Many women have always believed that men have a congenital 'telephone aversion' - they are unwilling to use the phone too much and do not want to talk too much on the phone. But with the surge of mobile communication, a new set of "phone rules" is also quietly forming.
Fundamentally speaking, men today are no longer as "hard to find" as they used to be, and are increasingly willing to chat on the phone, although most of them still cannot accept the usual 20 minute, half hour chat. But at the same time, we are also more confused about other things - why didn't he give me a call when he had a phone? Should I proactively call him, or send him text messages or emails? The following article will reveal men's phone habits and all the things to pay attention to when maintaining good communication with them.
Cracking message passwords to uncover the hidden secrets behind the three most common yet confusing voice messages... stuttering and speaking incoherently. "Hey, it's me, so what? Just make a phone call and see if you're there. Nothing serious, I'll leave you a message by the way... "Nervousness is the biggest characteristic of this type of message, which indicates that he cares about you very much, and he also cares about the impression he leaves on you.
Pure business type:
It's me. Call me back as soon as possible, Bye! Women usually find this tone too harsh and rude. However, don't forget, men usually use the phone this way. In their eyes, the phone is just a tool for quickly transmitting information. Don't worry about formal things, it's important to note - it's obvious that he wants to talk to you.
Sudden confusion:
I'm out with my friends, but I want to give you a call, say hello, and listen to your voice. That's it, goodbye! What does he mean? He wants me to call him back? Jealous of me going out to play with others? The answers to all these questions seem ambiguous, only one thing can be certain - although he is with others, he still thinks about you - he likes you and doesn't run away.
The "Telephone Law" of Men - Explanation of Telephone Etiquette - He is clearly interested in me, but he is hesitant to take the initiative.
What should I do to make him ask for my phone number? You should know that many men are very shy, and there are also many men who are "stupid" to the point where they cannot understand your suggestion. These two types of men usually do not take the initiative when they are not 100% sure that you are willing to tell them their phone number. As a smart woman, you naturally need to relieve their pressure and ask for their phone number proactively.
If you feel that doing this seems too "bold", then try gently clicking on this sentence during a date breakup: "You can call me. My caller ID shows me that he called me when I was not at home, but did not leave any messages.
Should I call him back? If so, should I mention that I knew he was calling? It may seem like a good idea to call him on the grounds that I found out he had called you through the caller ID, but in reality, it can only be considered a third rate method.
Remember, when it's time to take action, "telephone games" also have their own set of rules, especially in the early stages of a relationship. Adhering to the rules is particularly important. Only after they leave you a clear message - such as leaving a message for you to call back - will it be your turn to take action.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
