Post Date December, 03 2023
Even a husband and wife are two different people united, so there must be differences in their personalities. Differences in personality can bring some friction and contradictions to communication, and eliminating such differences can effectively reduce conflicts.
Exchange roles and be considerate of each other
A straightforward husband and a indecisive wife, or a flamboyant wife and a conservative husband, are two representative couples who live together and often quarrel because of their different ways of doing things. To avoid this unnecessary argument, when two people are angry, they can exchange roles before their anger is fully burned. The husband can imitate the way his wife quarrels, or the wife can imitate the way he is angry. Show the other person how they behave when they are not rational. Whoever sees their spouse's funny praise will burst into tears and smile.
Correctly judge a spouse's personality
Everything has two sides, and human character is no exception. So not only should you see the good side of your spouse's personality, but also accurately identify the side of the other person that makes you feel distressed. Then tell the other person to try to overcome the bad side. For example, if your wife is a spendthrift and you are very frugal, you can negotiate with your wife how much money or more to spend in the family, which needs to be mutually agreed upon by both parties. This is definitely much better than a heated argument or a cold war.>> Couples need nothing but tolerance
Seek self liberation
Don't always berate the other person and hold onto the mistakes of your spouse, which not only makes you unhappy, but also can swamp your relationship. When a person starts a relationship, they must initially accept the person's personality. Once they are combined, they develop a mentality of assimilating their spouse and always require the other person to make changes for themselves. The widely divergent psychology before and after marriage is one of the main reasons for marital discord. If you cannot recognize this, it is difficult to achieve a happy marriage. Therefore, both spouses should extricate themselves from being trapped in a blind alley where the other party can make changes for themselves. They should observe the advantages of the other party more and gain some new unity.
In addition, if you are truly intolerant of your spouse's personality, it is advisable to calmly consider whether there is something in the other person that can counteract your aversion. "Because everyone can't be full of shortcomings, if they were, you wouldn't have chosen them at the beginning, so you can expand this counteraction to promote your liking for your spouse.". If you can "borrow" a character you don't have from your spouse and integrate it into your personality, I believe your life will be more enjoyable.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
