Post Date December, 03 2023
There are usually many reasons why men cannot find girlfriends.
For example: lack of money, ugly appearance, lack of skills in picking up girls, etc.
In addition to external factors such as money and appearance, many times the technique of picking up girls plays a crucial role. Let's analyze together, why can't you find a girlfriend?
Not proactive
The initiative here involves two aspects:
1. Some people say that chasing girls cannot be proactive, which means losing half of the game.
The initiative that men should take is to actively create opportunities for women to know and understand you. Instead of actively giving gifts and taking care of her like a nanny.
2. Actively exude one's own male charm. Women like men who have male charm.
So, men should actively create their own charm.
The male charm of men includes many aspects: a strong body is an external manifestation, confidence, maturity, wisdom, and an internal expression. I have also talked about how men can exude their charm before, so I won't talk much about it here.
Not able to chat
Why don't you chat? On the one hand, one's own mentality is not good enough. When it comes to Girls' Day, one may feel nervous and afraid of being sidelined, so how can we chat. On the other hand, there is a lack of chatting skills.
The mindset of chatting needs to be gradually exercised. You can try to chat with strangers more often and make this behavior a habit. The mindset will naturally improve.
There are many methods for chatting skills. I have also systematically discussed it before. There are probably methods such as humor, storytelling, keywords, and points of interest.
You didn't make her happy
Think about it, what would a woman be with you for? I think the big reason is that she always feels happy, happy, and carefree with you, so she wants this kind of life and wants to be with you.
How to make women happy?
1. Humorous chatting. During the chat process, girls are often amused. When she is unhappy, she will tell a joke to the girl. So, accumulate a few jokes on a regular basis and use them in critical moments.
2. She often travels to see everything in the world. During the process of playing, women can feel the most happy.
3. The most important point. To make the people around you happy, you need to be happy from within and outside first.
Research has shown that emotions can be transmitted. A man is always happy and has an optimistic attitude towards life. Women who are with him can also be infected by this emotion and become very happy.
Promiscuous confession
Watching too many TV dramas, making an exaggerated confession before the right time. Causing the girl to have no contact with you due to old age.
True confession is not necessary. A promise after something happens. Believe me, do you understand?
Male chauvinism is too heavy
Carrying everything on your own, I didn't want a girl to worry about it, but unintentionally transmitted your emotions to her, making her feel uneasy. Remember if there is anything you can confide in a woman.
At appropriate times, cuddle up like a child in a woman's arms to stimulate her motherhood.
Overly concerned about what women unintentionally say
Girls are all relatively simple minded and simple. Don't be too concerned about what she says that's not good.
For example, she said, what do you think of other men?
Love is not that she really likes another man, she just hopes that the man she likes can become better. In the process of chasing girls, avoiding mistakes is more important than any skill.
Always trying to solve problems with reason
The biggest difference between men and women is that men are rational animals, while women are emotional animals.
Men like to follow rules and explain with reason. A woman is accustomed to following her feelings. What she thinks is right is right, and whether there is a reason or not is based on her feelings.
So, when discussing or even arguing with a girl, don't try to reason with her. Undoubtedly, the rhythm of death.
