Post Date December, 03 2023
My husband and I are in free love, married in 2008, and have two children. "When I got married, my husband's family was very poor, and everyone in my family objected. I persisted for two years, and the family finally agreed.".
My husband has a strong entrepreneurial spirit. After several years of hard work, he now has a house, a car, and a company. I thought life would be better in the future, but he has changed and has a mistress outside.
After I found out, he didn't show any remorse. He also said that wealthy people on TV live like this, as do his friends around him. It's good that he can come home on time most of the time. He asked me not to call him if he doesn't come home at night in the future, and it's useless to call him. He said that being with San is relaxing and not stressful.
I had a good conversation with him before, and he said he would be given a month to deal with it, but now he doesn't admit it. He said it would take at least two years, and when he gets tired of it, he will naturally give up.
I've also thought about giving up, but what about a divorced child. And I'm not willing, and my mother-in-law also says I'm stupid. Let me hold on and don't let San succeed. "I really don't know what to do when I think about taking care of my children at home and he's playing with women outside?"?
Re:
It's difficult to be a woman, but it's even harder to be a woman with a wealthy man.
In today's money oriented society, wealthy men are always surrounded by "peach pickers" (women who want to achieve the results of men's struggles by becoming junior mistresses). Most of the "lower body animals" like men are difficult to resist the temptation of beauty, so having money to keep themselves from cheating has become a problem for wealthy men. Finding a man who earns more money and is loyal to themselves has become a problem for women.
As the saying goes, "Women all have a dream of a princess, hoping to be loved by 3000 people. Most men have an imperial heart, and always want 3000 beautiful women in the harem."
Men who cheat and don't want to divorce usually consider their wives' emotions. Even if they don't want to break up with their mistress, they will comfort their wives with one lie after another, giving them the expectation that they will break up soon, so that they can sustain their wives. "Your husband's cheating is very reasonable and forceful, and he doesn't hide his viewpoint that" rich men should cheat ". He rationalizes his unreasonable cheating by using the phrase" wealthy people on TV live like this, and friends around him do the same. "He also boasts that" it will take at least two years, and he will naturally give up when he gets bored. ". He is so "honest", so "honest" is so cruel that he wouldn't even give you a lie.
Judging from your husband's words and deeds, he has determined that "it's normal for a man to have money to cheat", and that "it's reasonable for a rich man to cheat" are irrational concepts that can encourage him to keep having fun. He may become bored with this mistress and lead to the next mistress. Living with such a man, you need to be prepared for a long-term fight against him.
Behind every bossy man there is a weak woman. Think about it. When did you start to make him feel weak and deceptive? What is the reason why he dares to speak so loudly? What can you do to win his respect or make him afraid? I hope you will give some serious thought.
Choosing to live with him has the advantage of having no worries about food and clothing, and can keep the family together. The disadvantage is that you have to be prepared to accept his constant infidelity, and you have to work hard to fight against the mistress. Otherwise, if you are not careful, he will really change people. The good thing about divorce is that you can gain dignity, temporarily get rid of the tangle, and perhaps find a man who respects you and is worthy of your love. The bad thing is that the family is broken up, the children have to face stepparents, and you have to struggle for food and clothing. It may be difficult to find a man worthy of love.
"If you get him, you won't get his loyalty. You can only choose between the two.".
"His loyalty to your husband and wife is more important in your life. Think about it carefully, and you will know what to do if you think about it clearly.".
If you believe that he is a scum man, throwing out a scum man that is not worth cherishing and letting him torture the third person who has caused you a profound illness is also a kind of wisdom, do you think?
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
