Post Date December, 03 2023
The husband still keeps in touch with his ex-wife after marriage, which really makes it difficult for most women to be calm. However, it is not very rational to break face with her husband directly. Here's how to deal with your husband's ex-wife.
The reason why men never forget their love for their ex-wife
1、 The ex-wife may be the husband's first love, but the first love is the most unforgettable memory. Even if separated, men will remember each other's good.
2、 Some men and ex-wives go their separate ways because of personality differences. They will keep in touch with each other in the case of peaceful divorce, but they will still remember each other's good in their hearts, rather than complain about each other's bad.
3、 If a man can't feel the love of a woman after remarriage, he may compare his wife with his ex-wife. In comparison, if the ex-wife is far better than the current one, the more unforgettable she will be.
4、 Think back on your ex-wife's understanding and consideration. If men feel lost in the second marriage and need care most, the easier it is for them to remain in love.
5、 The run-in between a man and his current wife is not enough, and even makes him worry when he run-in, so men will recall the happy days with their ex-wife in this kind of worry.
6、 Even if you are separated from your ex-wife, you can't really forget it, especially if you were deeply in love and separated for some external reason. So when some men are sad, they will first think of the good of their ex-wife. At the moment, the new wife has become their burden and burden.
7、 The ex-wife will remember the things she likes very clearly, such as the food she likes to eat and the things she likes to do. New wives tend to ignore these. It is easy for men to think of their ex-wife.
8、 Some men will remember their ex-wife and children even if they remarry, and often support them. Work and school. In fact, this is a man's responsibility, and it is also what a man should do.
9、 The ex-wife is kind and impeccable. If it is not for the incompatibility of personality, he will never leave. Some men who still do not forget his ex-wife after remarriage may also not want to forget, do not want to forget.
10、 The new wife is too sensible, often annoys himself, and doesn't know how to comfort himself. So at this time, men can't help thinking about the good of their ex-wife, which is also easy for men to cheat again or rekindle their old love with their ex-wife.
The best way to deal with my husband's ex-wife
Understand why the husband keeps in touch with his ex-wife
He and his ex-wife still have an ambiguous relationship. It may be that he longed for novelty and dreamed of a little intimate love, but he often did not have the courage to sink too deep. For his ex-wife, he may feel guilty, and both parties still have some feelings, and have not completely come out of the previous marriage, so his ex-wife may become his object of ambiguity. On the other hand, it also shows that there are some problems in the marriage, so he will seek comfort outside the marriage.
When you realize this, as a wife, you should first find out the reason why your husband and his ex-wife are ambiguous and reflect on what's wrong with your marriage. Only when you find the root cause of the problem can you make targeted adjustments. If it is not a matter of marriage, it is better.
Communicate your feelings with your husband
Communication is the most indispensable way for couples to build trust. If the husband and his ex-wife contact is explicit or told to you, let him know some of your uncomfortable feelings. If you found it by accident, let him realize from the side that everyone needs to be responsible for marriage. No matter what causes his last marriage to break down, you are his wife after the marriage is restructured. If they don't stop flirting, it is irresponsible for both parties.
Choose trust after communication
If we have made frank exchanges with each other, there is no need for groundless speculation. Now that he has chosen you, it proves that there are important things in you that attract him. I hope you can continue to maintain these internal and external qualities that can attract him. Choosing to trust your husband is the best way. Only by reducing the inner tension can we better manage the current marriage. Another advantage of this is that it makes your husband feel forgiven, understood and respected. This will make your husband feel that you are better than his ex-wife in many ways and will strengthen his marriage with you. Otherwise, if he keeps monitoring, complaining and blaming, it will only make him feel discouraged and even push him into the arms of his ex-wife.
