Post Date December, 03 2023
All unhappy families have their own misfortunes. Xiao Luo's marriage life is less than three years old, and ended because of her husband's infidelity. Three years ago, the newlywed Xiao Luo and her husband lived a happy and happy life. But as time went on, Xiao Luo was obsessed with his daily life. With the birth of the child, the chances of communication between husband and wife became less and less.
Xiao Luo's husband is a small supervisor of the unit. He said that the salaried people of this class are hard to please at home and abroad, and the strong work pressure makes him breathless. Back home, not only can't get Xiao Luo's comfort, but also can bear her constant nagging, which makes Xiao Luo's husband feel very depressed, and his heart can't be released. However, the day continues. Xiao Luo doesn't notice anything unusual. He doesn't know when to start. His husband often works overtime until very late.
At first, Xiao Luo didn't care about her husband's changes. She didn't wake up until her husband asked her for a divorce. It turned out that the husband had someone outside six months ago. The third party was his colleague. It was when he was most frustrated that he took advantage of the opportunity to enter, which gave him great encouragement and spiritual comfort. The husband thought he had found a "bosom friend" and gradually developed into an underground relationship.
Seemingly "harmonious" marriage, it is also difficult to avoid extramarital love
According to common people's understanding, extramarital love usually occurs in families where the relationship between husband and wife is not harmonious. In fact, in real life, even if the relationship between husband and wife seems to be happy and harmonious, and there are no obstacles, it is difficult to guarantee that the "third party" will not intervene.
The marriage between Luo and her husband in the story is always harmonious, and there is no quarrel or disagreement between them. The key reason for Xiao Luo's husband to cheat is that Xiao Luo has never taken into account her husband's voice. As a wife, she has not listened to her husband's voice and solved his problems so that others can take advantage of it. The husband didn't argue with her from beginning to end, but he finally chose to let go because he didn't find a "bosom friend" in Xiao Luo.
Loneliness, boredom and lack of "bosom friends" are catalysts for marriage breakdown
After marriage, they form a family and have a child. After work, they go home with endless housework, endless fuel, rice, oil and salt. The words of love are replaced by pots and pans. If the nature of work and the focus of life are different between husband and wife, there will be a lack of "common language". Let the husband and wife live a boring life. Although the surface is calm, the heart is extremely lonely.
If one of the couples focuses on their work, or goes to work at the desk as soon as they get home, and doesn't hear about housework, the common language between the couple will only become less and less, and there will be a long-term lack of emotional communication. At this time, feelings are like "firecrackers". As soon as someone ignites, they will explode. If a third party inserts in the name of caring, it will make the neglected partner of the couple think he has found a "bosom friend", and then the tragedy of extramarital love will happen.
