Post Date December, 03 2023
Premature ejaculation is a common male disease, which has a certain impact on the relationship between husband and wife. In the process of treating premature ejaculation, the wife plays a very important role. We should not ignore it and treat it together.
The real case shared by netizens: I can't believe that I was still a premature ejaculator for a long time after my wedding! So one night after dinner, I asked my wife for a divorce. I said, "I can't give you a perfect husband and wife life. You should have a better way of life. I'm sorry for you. Please promise me a divorce!" My wife just calmed down and said to me: "I also know that sex life is really very important for couples, but the more important thing between couples is love. We meet for love and marry for love. Do we want to divorce for this kind of thing? Then our love is too fragile. Besides, you are not incompetent, it is caused by too anxious. It will be better slowly."
Since this conversation, my wife has taken many measures to help treat my premature ejaculation.
First, give me confidence and discuss sexual knowledge together. In fact, my wife, like me, is semi-illiterate in terms of sexual knowledge. So my wife changed her shyness and bought books about sex knowledge from the bookstore and studied with me. She also found out the reason for my premature ejaculation and said that I was too sensitive. I think so.
Second, let me master sexual skills in the face of stimulation. In order to reduce my sexual sensitivity, my wife asked me to see her naked in the light and let me touch her slowly... She also stroked my body and stimulated me, but did not let me have sex with her. Let me control and prolong the erection time in my desire.
Third, care about me in life and let me treat sexual life with a normal heart. According to the introduction in the book, my wife gave me necessary supplements to improve my physical quality. And told me that it doesn't matter whether you succeed or not in sex. Don't take it to heart. The most important thing between husband and wife is love, not sexual satisfaction.
With the help of my wife, I changed my body position during sex. At first, I mainly used my wife's position. When I stopped premature ejaculation, I transferred to other positions. In less than a month, I finally overcome the sexual fear caused by premature ejaculation, and both my wife and I enjoyed the joy and beauty of sexual life at the same time.
(Intern editor: Liu Ruichang)
