Post Date December, 03 2023
The editor recently discovered a phenomenon that if elders engage in sexual infidelity outside, then the younger generation will also engage in such behavior. What does this mean? From a psychological perspective, the editor believes that extramarital love is actually a hereditary disease that can be transmitted between families.
In many criteria for choosing a spouse, there is a rule that 'when choosing a man, it's important to consider the family's qualities'. The 'family character' includes the loyalty of the other party's parents towards marriage. Many research results have shown that 'extramarital affairs' are the most contagious between two generations. If the previous generation experiences serious extramarital behavior, their probability of having an affair in the next generation reaches 67%.
Extramarital affairs do have strong familial genetic characteristics. This inheritance is not passed down to the next generation through genes, but rather through psychological "black memories" that influence the next generation. That is to say, if his parents have had an extramarital affair, whether this extramarital behavior is hidden or public, his psychology will be deeply imprinted with painful, fear of being abandoned and alienated "black memories", and this "black memory" will accompany him for most of his life, Make him deal with this pain and fear in the same way as having an extramarital affair.
Of course, many men promise their partners that the infidelity of their parents and grandparents has caused them a lot of pain, so they will definitely not let the same tragedy happen to their children. But this wish is often difficult to achieve. Because humans, from relying on their parents in childhood to becoming truly unique individuals in adulthood, automatically transform the rules and characteristics of the environment into their own internal rules and characteristics. This subconscious identification is only subject to the things and people that have left the most profound impact on him, not at his own command, and not based on personal will.
So, elders should not only establish their own prestige at home, but also take care of their children or relatives. The key point is to set an example for the younger generation. If you haven't done well in your marriage, how can you educate others? Moreover, those who stay close to others will fall foul, and the younger generation will also engage in extramarital affairs outside like you, which is truly sad.
