Post Date December, 03 2023
Confessing is not easy, breaking up is even more difficult. The wrong way of expressing oneself, the most direct result is being rejected by the other party. There are no beauties in the world, why not fall in love with a flower? If you fail to confess, you can continue to search for another partner. If the breakup method is not correct, the most tragic consequence is that love between two people turns into hate, and some people may even fall down from a single breakup, and even choose to end their own lives. If a relationship is really about to break up, how can we get together and break up with each other? And how about not turning into enemies between the two sides in the end?
Especially some women, due to their emotional nature, are hesitant and hesitant. If they really want to end, how should they break up with their boyfriend? How to say goodbye?
First of all, when calm, solemnly say
If there is really no relationship between two people, or even if there is a certain relationship, but there are some issues with life philosophy, values, and worldview, frequent conflicts between two people, and only breaking up in the end is a relief for both parties. So, women should solemnly break up with their boyfriend when they are calm. Reasonably analyze with him that separating two people is better than being together. In fact, as long as we speak in a calm and thoughtful manner, the man will also feel the same way as us and understand that two people are really not suitable. Finally, we wish each other the best to meet the truly suitable partner. If a woman wants to break up with her boyfriend and says in anger during a fight, if the boyfriend is not wrong, it will make him feel aggrieved. If it's because his boyfriend did something wrong, he will feel guilty after breaking up. If both parties have responsibilities, it will also put the boyfriend in a state of entanglement and conflict. On the one hand, he will blame himself very much, but at the same time, he will feel wronged. In fact, the best reason for breaking up is that both parties feel that they are truly unsuitable, rather than ending a relationship due to a certain emotion. Being able to make each other understand that breaking up is the best outcome, which is when both parties are calm. So when it comes to breaking up with a boyfriend, it's important to say it seriously when it's calm.
2. Find reasons from oneself rather than blaming the other party
Many couples break up and their girlfriends say, 'I think you're an irresponsible man,' 'I don't think you love me at all,' 'I can't stand your bad temper. You've sworn to change it thousands of times, but I haven't seen any signs of you changing, and I can't trust you anymore.'. There are many similar breakup phrases, which are also the final lines for most couples to break up. Sometimes, when we say such breakup words to our boyfriend, although it serves as an outlet, it also brings us more angry emotions later on. When a woman criticizes her boyfriend, does she still have the illusion of the other person changing in her heart? If there are no illusions, does it also reveal a sense of helplessness and helplessness? In fact, both of them are going to separate, and it's meaningless to say such things. When two people are together, they must have had love before, but in the end, they don't love anymore. After breaking up, you can summarize yourself. When breaking up in the end, it's worth summarizing what you've learned, gained, and lost in this relationship. If you are preparing to break up, women should look for reasons from themselves rather than blaming each other. After all, blaming is useless, let alone two people who have loved each other before. It's better to gather and disperse in the end.
Tell him very clearly
If you really decide to break up, then clearly tell him that a decisive breakup is better than dragging the boat. Two people are no longer suitable for being together, so they should express their wishes clearly. When interrupted, one must suffer chaos. Some women are very eager to break up, but they are afraid of hurting each other and feel embarrassed to tell their boyfriends. In fact, pretending to be good for each other even when they no longer love is a form of torture for both parties. If you don't love, you won't love anymore. Tell the other party clearly, so that they know where to go next. In the consultation, I encountered a similar case: a woman and her boyfriend are from a different place. She felt that her boyfriend was very irresponsible and didn't take the initiative to break up with her, but she didn't dare to say it. So I deliberately didn't take the initiative to find my boyfriend, and as a result, my boyfriend didn't find me either, so there was no connection between the two of them for two months. Then the girl was confused: should she say goodbye or not? My answer is: I should clearly tell the other party to break up. This is a relief for oneself. You can imagine how many days and nights there will be to struggle with how to express your original intention when you are thinking of breaking up in your heart but dare not say it. That would be a great torment for oneself. So if you want to break up with your boyfriend, you should clearly tell him.
Every relationship has the possibility of separation, and we are in the process of opening and closing again and again, to clarify what we want the most and what kind of talent is truly suitable for us. When he is not suitable for us at this moment, we need to clearly tell the other party, and at the same time, we need to solemnly tell the other party when we are calm. Finally, when we break up, we should look for reasons from ourselves, so that we can truly get together and break up.
