Men have two kinds of feedback about sex life. If you are occasionally frustrated in your sex life, you will think that you are "no good", or even rely on food or drugs, and you will fall into a vicious circle of "the more you feel bad, the worse you are", which is "negative feedback".
On the contrary, I feel that I "can", and I am neither nervous nor afraid in my sexual life. Relaxing, not only makes couples communicate more smoothly, but also can obtain better erectile quality and improve the quality of sexual life. This is "positive feedback". The biggest difference between the two types of feedback is confidence. Whether a man has confidence or not plays a decisive role.
If you put your energy and hope on health food and "helpful" food, men should take good care of their confidence. Everyone has unhappy times, and sex life is also unhappy, which is related to work pressure, fatigue, mood, etc.
If you put yourself in the category of "no" when you are not happy, you really underestimate the potential of men; If the idea of "no medicine, no medicine" arises, it is even more misguided. Believe in your own strength, is the "right way".
Protect the confidence of men, and the role of wives is also crucial. Because wife is an important party to judge the quality of sexual life, and also the key to mobilize men's confidence. When the quality of sexual life is not ideal, it is also the most vulnerable time for men. The wife's gentle encouragement or cynicism will bring different effects.