Post Date December, 03 2023
After marriage, it is a marriage in which couples take care of each other and rely on each other. How much love is there? Love is first of all a voluntary feeling, a strong attraction to the other party, and a constant yearning that cannot be pushed or chopped away. After getting married, many people have lost their charm, which is a terrible thing. How can I maintain my charm after marriage? How can we attract each other after marriage?
Method 1: Leave some space for your lover
The combination of two sexes is the combination of emotions and life, not the dissolution of personality and personality, and neither side is the shadow of each other. Therefore, do not force yourself to be inseparable. Otherwise, just as constant eating can make people lose their appetite, sticking together can also make people lose interest. The relationship between a man and a woman has only some common points, and both sides can have their own friends and hobbies, and can have more topics. There is a benign effect. In a sense, without distance, there is no freedom, without distance, there is no attraction, and the spacing of time and space often increases the intensity of love.
A few people find it difficult to accept the normal interaction between their loved ones and the opposite sex, always worrying that they will one day be "squeezed out", and often do some stupid things: their loved ones answer a phone call from the opposite sex, or a friend of the opposite sex comes to their home, or make roundabout inquiries about others, or look at the guests left and right; Some people control the activities of the other party by announcing "discipline", including spying on correspondence, interfering in social interaction, and even tracking and pursuing, leaving the other party with no free time and space, etc; As a result of doing so, it is never possible to win the attraction of the other party, while on the contrary, the parties often place themselves in a position of indifference.
Method 2: Make yourself comfortable, and make yourself happy
The love of beauty is human nature, both men and women. After marriage, couples should prevent their emotions and aspirations before marriage from becoming completely wiped out by the rigid and repetitive housework and the dull daily relationship. Attention should be paid to decoration, especially after women become married, they must not regard dedication and sacrifice to the family as their only life significance and obligation, ignoring the pursuit of a richer life. "Dive into the kitchen and play the role of 'old lady', becoming disinterested or unkempt, becoming old and stiff.". Even after reaching middle age or even entering old age, due to physiological reasons for men and women, men have a longer period of charm than women. At this time, it is even more necessary to make subjective efforts to seek common ground between both parties and reshape their demeanor with deeper love and new understanding. No one can have a permanent red forehead, but "although innate beauty is lost, artificial beauty is sufficient to compensate." Proper light makeup and clothing, coupled with demure elegance, depth, and generosity, still give a sense of brilliance. Although there is a saying about natural beauty in temperament, it is more about nurture.
Method 3: Increase your sense of humor
Understanding one's feelings is the only way to promote mutual affection. Faced with the complexities of social life, especially the trivialities of family life such as pots and pans, it is sometimes necessary to have more courage to withstand difficulties and the ability to control life. Humor in the family can alleviate psychological stress, especially the humorous language used in couples' lives, which can often stir up emotional waves. Because humor is a symbol of perseverance, calmness, wisdom, and ability, and a mediator of family conflicts.
The above three ways to maintain attractiveness between couples may seem simple and popular, but they actually reveal the secrets of how couples get along: understanding, tolerance, and love. It's not easy to do it, it's a subject that requires couples to learn together. There are moments of missing each other when we are apart. Give each other a distance, a space, and let them yearn and wait with tenderness. Therefore, appropriate separation can increase the freshness between couples. As the saying goes, "A small parting is better than a new marriage." Psychologically, this is due to artificially creating distance, which makes each other's image in the other's eyes permanent.
