Post Date December, 02 2023
When walking on the street and seeing the seniors who support each other, will they feel the secret of how they can grow old together and be so harmonious and happy? In fact, the way of getting along with a husband and wife needs us to learn constantly. There is a lot of knowledge in it! Through observation of countless happy couples, we found the secret of their happiness. Next, let's take a look at their marriage formula that keeps love constant.
1. Intimacy formula
Intimacy makes two people close to each other, and this intimate relationship includes a kind of coordination and thoughtful friendship. It is based on the enthusiasm of consistency, and also on the differences between each other. A wife put forward an interesting point of view. She said: "A happy marriage comes from two people who are opposite in personality and consistent in basic situation."
2. Co-operation formula
All stable couples have a fixed pattern, such as one for cooking, one for walking the dog, and then reading books and newspapers together. Although these trivial matters themselves cannot produce happiness, they inject trust and responsibility into the marriage relationship. Happy couples are trying to make a difference in their home. They work together. So that they can buy a farm or a shop. No matter what their goal is, the joint efforts to achieve the ideal can make the marriage glow.
3. Understanding formula
We found that those couples who love for a long time basically do not quarrel. This is because they can handle conflicts very correctly. Of course, they have different ways to solve problems. Some couples always resolve their conflicts on the same day, while others let them stay overnight and deal with them after calming down.
4. Nourishing formula
The nourishment here is based on finding the advantages of the spouse. Of course, no one is perfect, and everyone has shortcomings. However, we should be good at discovering each other's strengths. When we focus on each other's strengths, our marriage will be nurtured. Mature marriage means that we should accept the fact that we all have shortcomings. Being a realist means that marriage has its joys and sorrows, and when it is smooth and difficult, it is better to face it than to nag.
5. Change formula
Many married couples know how to change themselves and make themselves better. Many couples who have changed after marriage will feel better, and their spouses agree with this. Unexpectedly, many happy couples have experienced marital crisis, but their marriage has survived and is becoming increasingly happy. The change of one party may temporarily shake the status quo of the relationship. In fact, it will encourage the other party.
6. Equality formula
The equal relationship of all happy couples is most clearly reflected in financial management. Every happy couple, without exception, said that their family income was their common, neither his nor her, and they never argued over financial control. They will also have contradictions, but they are not for power and status. In their minds, no matter what they do, their efforts are regarded as important.
7. Friend formula
The so-called friend formula is that a wife can pursue her ideal freely. And she knows that her husband's love and respect for her is unconditional, whether he understands her decision or not. On the contrary, the husband's decision is the same. A happy marriage is one in which both parties regard their spouses as their closest friends.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
