Post Date December, 03 2023
These days, when we hear the word "hidden rules", we can only express it. So, some people laugh, some cry, some scold their mother without getting it, and some get it and feel lonely. If you are "hidden", others may not be proud, and if you are "hidden", you may not be innocent.
Do you know that our marriage also has "hidden rules"? Other "hidden rules" more or less reflect the helplessness and sadness of this society, but only the "hidden rules" of marriage are worth our continuing and joy, which may also be a kind of fairness.
If you marry, you have to pay back. When we are going to marry a woman or a man, the first step of the "hidden rule" has already begun. All love has requirements, and marriage is to make these requirements concrete. In addition to fulfilling the previous commitments one by one, I can't think of what you want to "hide" or be "hidden". If you don't have the ability to raise a woman, don't marry. It's not your business for a woman to let you raise her, but whether you can raise her or not is related to the long-term plan of marriage; If you are not ready to be a wife, don't marry. Men don't want you to be your business, but whether you can do it or not is related to the sweetness of marriage. In marriage, giving is necessary, and the amount of return is directly related to the happiness in the hands. There is no free lunch in the world. It is a joke to just "eat" and not give it in marriage.
Magnify advantages and tolerate disadvantages. When two people sleep in the same bed and eat in the same pot, the original advantages will be blurred, because you have got it, and the original disadvantages will be clearer, because it is difficult for people to satisfy. However, if we can't magnify the advantages and tolerate the disadvantages in our marriage, you will become a deserter if you don't become a resentful wife over time, and our marriage will become a shackle or suffering. In fact, the men and women who have entered the marriage may be slack, and may not be enthusiastic, but the advantages we have fallen in love with will always be there. It is our tired heart that makes the face of the shortcomings become detestable. The residual temperature of love can last for two years at most in marriage. After this time, our marriage can't be forever only by the sentence "I love you". Sometimes, we are in the besieged city of marriage because "the enemy's way is narrow", so we should pester the old and talk about love slowly.
Compromise in the truth of marriage. Marriage is not only the combination of two men and women, but also the integration of two social relations. That is to say, what we married is all about each other, including things and people, including what you like and what you don't like. The truth of marriage is that the two steps have nothing to do with the "history scroll". You have been elated, and you may no longer be lonely and lively, or you may no longer be happy, and you may become miserable. People who are not willing to compromise are not suitable for entering into marriage, which is not for a man or woman, but for our marriage. Marriage is a kind of career. Don't do what you don't like, just go to the end if you choose. Maybe you can't judge marriage by success or not, but it will not make your life pale. A happy marriage is a journey of flowers.
The relationship between husband and wife is a life-long friendship. Couples are supposed to share the blessings and share the difficulties, but our life can't be smooth for anyone, and the sky of marriage may also be clouded by it. Fortunately, two people are better than one in marriage, but unfortunately, two people in marriage are not one mind. As a result, the troubles in life become more serious as soon as they enter the marriage. The more noisy and complicated the matters between men and women become as soon as they enter the marriage. If the relationship between husband and wife can not be transited to the life-long friendship and can not support each other and cover the life and death with each other, then this kind of marriage is meaningless, and the people in it should not be at all. Please remember to be with your lover, at any time and under any circumstances, rather than sitting at home and waiting for that person to rush ahead, let alone flinch and make that person cold to the heart.
Are you "hidden rules" of marriage? Ha ha, I have to congratulate you first, because you have chosen a lifestyle closest to happiness. However, most of the men and women who have just entered the marriage have been overwhelmed by the "hidden rules" of marriage. Pain, of course, must be painful, but it is good to endure the past, and may never be able to speak in happiness from now on; Those who can't bear it will be gone, and may not want to talk again in the back pain. Fortunately, our marriage also has "hidden rules". As long as we find out the way, then a happy marriage is not just a fairy tale.
