The Harm of Eating Forbidden Fruits Early is Not a Small Thing: Three Firewalls for Adolescent Education

Adolescent sex education in China is mainly preventive, with the aim of preventing related adverse outcomes, such as preventing teenagers from prematurely interacting closely with the opposite sex and affecting their studies by eating forbidden fruits, and avoiding pregnancy, induced abortion, sexually transmitted diseases, AIDS infection, etc. Many parents only require their children not to do so, but rarely explain the specific reasons for their children. So, the past is different from wishes, and if children are not exposed, their curiosity and curiosity will also increase. Parents can say it once or twice, always say it?

Why Women Should Eat Forbidden Fruits Early in a Love Misunderstanding

According to traditional moral norms in China, the most intimate contact during love is usually kissing, hugging, cuddling, caressing, etc. Sexual activity can only occur after obtaining legal permission and walking through the marriage hall.

Premarital sex is socially opposed and not allowed. However, with the development of society, traditional moral norms have gradually lost their constraining power, and sexual relationships have gradually torn open the hidden veil. The increase in premarital sexual behavior and the tendency towards aging have become issues of concern for the entire society.

When men and women engage in sexual activity in love, they often push women into a passive position. Especially when premarital sex brings a series of negative consequences to women, psychological pressures such as terror and inferiority appear one after another. When induced abortion is necessary after pregnancy, there is a concern that it may leave sequelae and affect future life. However, when investigating premarital sex, it was found that more than half of it was voluntary among women. So, what are the emotions of women in love? After investigation and psychological analysis, we have discovered their inner secrets:

1. Traditional love is incomplete and pursues a "trendy" way of falling in love

The cross century Chinese society has entered a fast-paced and colorful era, with a changing lifestyle and a "trendy" approach to love. Some young people mistakenly believe that the contemporary way of falling in love is to have sexual relationships frequently. They say that "traditional love is incomplete, and true love should reflect vastness, giving each other everything", "love should give each other freedom, why wait until after marriage", "sentimentality is meaningless, I want to go ahead of history..." Under the psychological control of catching up with the "new trend", they quickly transitioned from first love to passionate love, passionately embracing, kissing, caressing, and stimulating strong sexual instincts, It made it difficult for reason to resist, resulting in premarital sexual activity. A survey found that among women who engage in premarital sexual activity, nearly half of them have had sexual intercourse multiple times within six months, and over 80% of people believe that it is a personal matter. In fact, women deeply hurt themselves in various free and trendy sexual behaviors.