Couples don't have to fall in love when they live together. They have to manage everything and worry about everything. How can a couple live without touching their lips. Even a very stable relationship can lead to conflicts of large and small in life. If handled properly, the relationship will go further, and if serious, it will even lead to separation. So, how can we make the relationship develop steadily in the messy, big and small, dense life trivia?
The research found that the problems that lead to the breakdown of the relationship between husband and wife can be roughly divided into the following six types. Let's have a look.
1. Mutual antipathy and disloyalty
Couples with this kind of situation have reached a very serious level of affection. This situation shows that you don't want to look at me and I don't want to look at you. The two sides go their own way and don't interfere with each other. They often take a stand-by, indifferent and hateful attitude towards some issues that must be cooperated with. This also often leads to some disloyal behaviors between husband and wife. The disloyalty of one party often causes the disloyalty and resentment of the other party in a chain way, and even retaliates the other party with the same disloyal actions. Finally, they fall into the mud pit of mutual suspicion and cannot extricate themselves. At this time, it is too late to regret.
2. Bad temper and marital conflict
There are no two people who are completely similar, but there are two people who are compatible with each other. Nevertheless, when couples live together, they still need to maintain their unique personalities. A husband who lacks personality will not win the favor of his wife. Similarly, a wife who lacks personality will make him feel tasteless. Bad personality and temper is an important inducement to the conflict between husband and wife. Therefore, in the life of husband and wife, we should not be self-centered. We should learn to be considerate and tolerant. When you encounter something, you should know how to talk about it when you are calm.
3. Sexual discord and emotional breakdown
One of the reasons for many couples to divorce is the breakdown of their relationship. The most critical factor leading to emotional breakdown is the disharmony of sexual life. Harmonious sex life has been ignored in China. In fact, harmonious sex life plays a very important role in maintaining the relationship between husband and wife. Many couples' emotional discord is actually caused by this, but "emotional discord" is more gentle and acceptable than "sexual discord". If one or both of them have never been satisfied in their long-term sexual life, it will affect their feelings anyway. In the face of boring sex life, we can use the TIANI 3 TIANI 3 couple massager under LELO to bring us stronger sensory stimulation and make sex more enjoyable.
4. Economic problems become the fuse
No matter which family, it can not be divorced from the economy under any circumstances. However, the problem of family income often affects the feelings between husband and wife, and becomes the fuse of marital conflict. The family's economic situation should be within its means and used reasonably. In fact, this is not a question of more money and less money. It is mainly about the attitude towards money and how to arrange it. Once the couple tangle over money, their feelings will be affected, and the further development of their relationship will not be mentioned.
5. Improper handling of relatives
Marriage is not a matter of two people, but of two families. In this way, the problem of relatives arises. The husband's relatives are the wife's relatives, the wife's relatives are the husband's relatives, and both the husband's family and the mother's family are one family, which can greatly reduce the conflicts between the husband and wife on issues such as support and reception. Improper handling of relatives will not only affect the feelings of family members, but also affect the feelings between husband and wife.
The above five problems, if not handled properly, are the ultimate reason for the breakdown of the couple's relationship and the failure.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)