Post Date November, 17 2024
I have read this sentence: What conquers a man is not the beauty of a woman, but her femininity. What is femininity? It is a vague concept that can be felt but cannot be said. When people talk about femininity, they always associate it with sexiness, charm, and the graceful and charming women. It seems that only in this way is femininity. Throughout history, the evaluation of femininity has always been from a male perspective. However, modern women have a broader space for self shaping, and some traditional norms that have not completely passed away are no longer able to promise women's lifelong happiness.
They grew up in confusion and emptiness, and while contemplating the topic of women's lives, they also opened up a broader living space for themselves. Therefore, the connotation of femininity has become broad and profound. Femininity research, or the search for femininity, is actually a return to a natural state that is beneficial to women's physical and mental well-being. The naturalness of women is the foundation of women, and when it comes to the essence, it is femininity. But femininity is an inexplicable and immeasurable concept. What is femininity? What kind of femininity do we need?
We asked people of various age groups and attempted to extract some representative answers to explain how women should be perceived by people. But we found that even in such a simple and casual survey, the understanding of femininity still varies, and in fact, we still cannot explain what femininity is.
However, it can be summarized that the various advantages unique to women are the ultimate answer to the question of what constitutes femininity. Even though people have different understandings of femininity, and even if we haven't found a unified answer to femininity, what we can be certain about is that femininity is specifically decomposed into various advantages of women. Perhaps we can simply say that femininity refers to the various female advantages that women possess but men lack.
Investigation report
In this survey, a total of five men and seven female friends were asked, and the answers obtained include: all kinds of charm are feminine, only gentle and virtuous women have feminine charm, the radiance of motherhood is the representative of feminine charm, gentle and cheerful women have feminine charm, understanding is feminine, and women who can unleash their own characteristics will emit feminine charm, and so on. Among them, young men will bluntly state that appearance is an important factor in femininity, while women usually consider indescribable feelings such as a woman's personality and charm.
Most female friends when discussing this topic say that men and women have different understandings of femininity. However, there are many times when women consider the male perspective when discussing femininity, and often view the issue from a male perspective. But obviously, women's understanding of femininity is usually more tolerant, or the connotation of femininity in women's eyes is broader and richer.
The femininity that male friends talk about seems to disappoint many women. In their eyes, the feeling of femininity is more reflected in their appearance. They often judge a woman's taste based on their first glance, but do not think much about where this femininity comes from.
Femininity is very feminine
In the eyes of Lin Yiwu and some of his friends, femininity is first and foremost characterized by charm and elegance. Simply put, only women who are very feminine have femininity. The femininity in Lin Yiwu's eyes is everything that male compatriots do not have. Therefore, this feeling must originate from a beautiful appearance, light body, appropriate clothing, gentle language, and so on. Overall, femininity represents all the expectations that men have for women.
Lin Yiwu admitted that because he is still very young, his demands for women may be stronger and his external feelings may be adjusted. In a few years, this understanding may be different. But he insists that only young women are more feminine.
Gentleness and amiability are important manifestations of femininity
What most men like the most is the gentleness of women. The most touching thing about women is gentleness. Of course, this kind of gentleness is not artificial. A woman who is gentle but not artificial knows the cold and the heat, the light and the heavy. With her, some inner unhappiness will disappear, and such a woman is the most heartwarming. Gentleness is a weapon unique to women, and although men also have a gentle side, it cannot replace women's gentleness.
A woman standing in front of us, speaking a few words, even without speaking, we can feel whether the woman is gentle or not. People can't help but immerse themselves in the atmosphere created by women. This femininity is not related to age, nor even to appearance.
