Post Date November, 16 2024
What should young men and women pay attention to when facing sexual life for the first time and turning latent and surging sexual desires into real sexual life during the "Wedding Night"?
1. Don't forget yourself and kiss deeply
In the first sexual encounter, the intense sexual desire of men and women often begins with passionate kissing and touching. However, improper kissing can lead to joy and sorrow. If the kiss is not appropriate, excessive pressure on the other person's neck can slow down the heart rate and blood pressure in mild cases, and reflexively cause sudden cardiac arrest in severe cases, leading to death.
2. Do not indulge in excessive indulgence
Newlywed men and women have unbearable desires and indulge in frequent sexual activity, which is harmful to their health. In the process of preparing for the wedding, I was already very tired. If I had excessive sexual activity again, it would lead to a decrease in the body's disease resistance and cause certain diseases. Generally speaking, for healthy men and women, it is advisable to have 6-7 times a week in the early stages of marriage, and reduce it to 3-4 times a week in the future. As long as they do not feel tired the next day and feel happy and energetic, they can adapt. If there is emotional fatigue, fatigue, low back pain, drowsiness, dizziness, shortness of breath, etc., it indicates excessive sexual activity and must be controlled, otherwise it will harm health.
3. Don't be impatient or rude
During sexual activity, the man should show kindness and gentleness, and not be too rude to avoid causing pain and adverse stimulation to the woman. Excessive excitement often leads to premature ejaculation. If this phenomenon occurs, there is no need to worry too much, as it will gradually improve in the future. If the newlyweds catch up with the woman's menstruation, the man must control his sexual behavior and not engage in sexual activity, otherwise it will bring pain to the woman.
4. Don't be suspicious
If a newly married man or woman finds that her hymen has broken during their first sexual life, they should not suspect the moral behavior of the bride. In fact, female hymen rupture is common, and many daily behaviors can lead to hymen rupture, such as participating in sports and heavy labor. Therefore, the man should not harbor suspicion and create unnecessary conflicts.
What should women pay attention to on their first night of marriage
1. Prevent inflammation of damaged hymen.
After the hymen ruptures, some slight pain and a small amount of bleeding should be wiped with sterile gauze or cotton wool. It is better to have intercourse every 2-3 days to prevent wound inflammation. If the hymen ruptures and bleeds a lot, and the pain is unbearable, you should seek medical advice.
Sometimes, because the hymen of a woman is thick or the hymen hole is too small, or the man's sexual intercourse is rough, more bleeding may occur after hymen tears. In the most serious cases, not only the hymen has a large fissure, but also the labia minora wall is torn, leading to massive bleeding.
2. Treat premature ejaculation correctly.
During first sexual intercourse, the male partner may experience premature ejaculation due to lack of sexual knowledge or excessive excitement, resulting in sexual failure. You should forgive this situation, it is not premature ejaculation. With the growth of sexual knowledge and experience after marriage, both parties cooperate in a tacit manner and will quickly return to normal.
3. Pay attention to external genital hygiene.
On your wedding night, both you and your husband need to wash the external genitals with warm water and neutral soap essence. As the wedding purchases goods and treats relatives and friends, the newlyweds are busy and tired. Men's smegma and women's vaginal secretions increase. If not cleaned, it is very unsanitary, which will affect the sexual desire and health of both men and women.
4. Take proper contraceptive measures.
If both men and women do not want to have children immediately and do not take birth control pills, both couples have concerns, and the woman is even more afraid of pregnancy, so their thoughts cannot be highly focused, which can affect their sexual life. If the woman takes the contraceptive pill in a timely manner, or the man wears a condom, both parties will have no worries, focus, and sexual life will achieve satisfactory results.
5. Close cooperation and mutual consideration.
When starting sexual activity, both parties may feel shy, especially the woman, who has a more complex psychological state and is a bit nervous. You need to make your husband's movements gentle. If you can't do it at once, you can try more times. The woman should also take the initiative to cooperate, overcome tension and fear, take the initiative to relax, arouse sexual excitement quickly, secrete more vaginal fluid, and lubricate well, which can reduce the pain during sexual intercourse, and can also alleviate the pain caused by the abrasion of hymen.
