Post Date December, 02 2023
1、 Being ridiculed for being timid and cowardly
Since ancient times, there has been a saying that heroes save beauty, but men all like beauty, so in the eyes of men, they all hope to be a hero admired by beauty.
Unfortunately, we are a civilized society, so there are not many beauties who need men to use their powerful figures as flower protectors.
But this does not mean that men will give up their heroic dreams. For men, mocking them for being timid is nothing more than implying that they are not manly enough, which can be an insult to them.
2、 Being criticized for their appearance
I always thought that only women would care about their appearance, but in fact, men also care. Recently, a friend has had a girlfriend and has been feeling that their standard figure is not strong enough to give her enough security.
In fact, what his girlfriend said is that the men in her family are somewhat muscular, so the lack of confidence in their appearance often comes from psychological pressure. In fact, what women care about is not how tall, strong, and handsome the man is, but how sincere the man is to her.
However, it is said that men care about others' evaluations of their appearance because they are confident in their genes. Just like those short men who always hope to find a tall woman, they hope to make up for their shortcomings by complementing each other. Therefore, if women are picky about a man's appearance, they will be understood by men as not valuing him
3、 Praising another man in front of him
Just as women do not want men to praise another woman in front of them, men also mind women praising another man in front of them, even if the man is a woman's family member or a man's friend.
Men can't bear it, but when a woman is with him, she tries her best to praise another man. This not only makes a man feel that you are looking down on him, but also a very intellectually weak approach.
Think about it, most men love face, especially in front of their beloved women, hoping to be recognized by the other person. When you praise another man in front of him, you are just telling him that there is another man who is better than him. If this man is still recognized by him, which man can tolerate it?
4、 Open Private Life
I remember when I met a woman before, I always liked to talk about things between her and her husband. One day, after helping him wash his underwear, he hung it on the balcony and it was blown away by the wind. Today, I bought a few cans of soda and rolls of toilet paper, and I had to ask his husband for reimbursement at night. Even when his husband snored at night, I mentioned it.
Everyone has two sides, and her husband can also be considered a person of some social status, which has been supported by many people in the past. In his own home, all men will disarm and restore their true selves, and at this moment, he is also defenseless, digging his nostrils and scratching his scalp.
If a woman uses the secrets between you and him as a source of conversation, for a man, it is like exposing his weaknesses and weaknesses to others. He will feel betrayed and will be excluded from revealing his true side in front of you.
5、 Sexual performance
Every man hopes to be able to maintain his strength and ease his movements, but there are always times when his strength is not up to his expectations, and the attitude of women when facing men who are not up to their expectations can greatly affect their future performance. What's particularly bad is that some women still like to promote the personal addiction between husband and wife. It should be noted that men's inability is not entirely a physiological issue, but rather a psychological one. Women's ridicule is the reason for men's "psychological inability".
For example, the woman I mentioned earlier, her husband doesn't come home for three days or two, and everyone knows what's going on. And because she had been married for many years and had not had children, she was afraid of being laughed at, so she spread the word that her husband couldn't do it in bed. I think for a man, not being able to do it in bed may be much more serious than not having money. So the man openly led a young and beautiful woman into a couple and used his actions to tell everyone that he was not "not able" anymore, but that he had no "sexual interest" in his wife.
As for whether it's a pretense or not, we don't know. I just know that whether it's okay or not, women shouldn't take it out and talk about it everywhere.
