Post Date December, 02 2023
A person who has friends of the opposite sex is generally referred to as "sexual encounter". In fact, emotional encounters between the opposite sex can be divided into five levels:
One name is "encounter between plants and plants": purely because of attractive appearance or desire, or simply because both feel bored or even due to financial relationships, it is when both parties come together and after a brief period of entertainment, they go their separate ways and quickly forget each other, leaving no memorable memories worth cherishing. This is the lowest level of 'romantic encounters', also known as' ruthless encounters'.
The second name is "Encounter of Waves": Both of them are in a state of loneliness, meeting due to some kind of chance, such as water encountering wind, and encountering the shore. After a brief period of mutual understanding and familiarity, they discover some commonalities, stir up a splash of water in their hearts, generate excitement, and quickly fall into a web of illusionary love. When external conditions change, the illusion disappears, and the two become strangers again. At this level, 'romantic encounters' often last for a short time, and after parting, there are feelings of kindness and resentment, and over time, the impression becomes blurred.
The third is the "encounter of gold and jade": when one party encounters an outstanding or outstanding opposite sex, they are shocked and use all their skills to deliberately pursue it. The pursued party is finally attracted and moved. After a long period of interaction, both parties discover many similarities in temperament, personality, and talent, and gradually develop feelings, commonly known as "love". If conditions permit, it may become a 'lover' or a 'LOVER'. If the external environment does not support it, it may also be just a mental friend of the opposite sex. Regardless of the outcome, the time spent interacting with each other will always become a beautiful memory in life. This level of 'romantic encounters' is what ordinary people aspire to.
However, it is often constrained by external factors such as appearance, temperament, personality, talent, money, status, etc. If such an encounter occurs, it can be considered commendable.
The fourth is "Pearl Encounter": When two parties meet unintentionally and without any preparation, they are attracted by the other party's inner cultivation or appearance, or because a small incident they unintentionally reveal resonates with each other, leaving a deep impression on their hearts. In the brief and indifferent interaction, neither party deliberately did or said anything. After parting, heaven is far apart. And in the depths of my memory, the scene of my first encounter often flashes. Perhaps later on, I will contact you through letters, phone calls, or maybe do nothing. Both parties have no intention of changing their current life situation, but cherish the beautiful emotions in the world in their hearts, such as collecting round and smooth pearls in their hearts. If each other's cultivation is of sufficient level, let's call it a day; If one is not careful, they will fall to the third level, which means "falling into love".
The fifth saying is' Diamond Encounter ': often at a glance, or in a word, or in a thing
In an instant, lightning struck both sides' hearts, quickly leaving a dedicated space for each other in their hearts. They felt each other, moved each other, cared for each other, cherished each other, and became a lifelong fate. Of course, such things can only happen between the opposite sex, but both parties often overlook the other's appearance, location, status, and other external factors, and only focus on spiritual communication and care. Generally speaking, this level of 'romance' lasts the longest, even for a lifetime, or can be deeply touching and become a timeless story. As for whether there is a satisfactory outcome, that is a secondary issue. It is worth noting that this top-level emotional encounter is often difficult to grasp, unless both parties have high cultivation and self-control. Diamonds are the most precious, but they have edges and corners, and sometimes they can sting when hidden in the heart.
