Post Date December, 03 2023
"Having a mistress, finding a mistress, and raising a mistress" is the most popular term in today's society. Although it contradicts Chinese tradition, men still love it and enjoy it tirelessly. Having a red flag at home that doesn't fall and a colorful flag floating outside is a dream pursued by many men. Which man is not lascivious? That's the simple truth
The first outcome: boring fulfillment
So when a man raises a mistress, he is more focused on pursuing a process of enjoyment and spiritual stimulation, but things always have to have an explanation and an ending. The above are the five possible outcomes of raising a mistress that I have summarized:
When a man raises a lover, many people end up with things revealed, eventually letting their wife know, ultimately leading to the breakdown of their relationship and ultimately leading to divorce.
If the lover is single, the man will choose to marry the lover and continue to live a married life. The wife may find her partner and live a new life.
But the children lost the joy of their family as a result, and the biggest harm was still to them. However, this outcome is quite satisfactory.
The second outcome: unlucky loneliness
If both parties have families, and one party divorces after the incident, while the other party chooses to continue their marriage, the divorce will only result in the loss of both people and wealth, and regret will be felt.
But the party who chooses to continue their marriage will definitely leave a shadow in their hearts that is difficult to heal, leaving a hidden danger to their normal lives, and the gains outweigh the losses. But this outcome is not the worst either.
The third outcome: Take what you need and enjoy it tirelessly
The reason why many mistresses are with men is the character 'wealth'. Often, after reaching a certain amount of wealth, one will make a desperate choice to leave.
During their life with men, they are also too lazy to influence each other's families. As long as they have money to spend, it is enough, while men pursue physiological needs and each has their own way.
Until one day when a woman had enough money and understood, naturally breaking up was the ultimate outcome. However, this type of man will continue to pursue women as mistresses, and it is also a matter of time before they reveal their true feelings.
The fourth outcome: the chaotic situation of chicken flying and dog jumping
After a man found his mistress and his wife discovered it, his wife, out of a sense of revenge, actually went to find his lover, resulting in a chaotic situation and continuous domestic violence.
The mentality of a man at this time is that he can find a mistress, and women should follow the three rules and four virtues. However, he forgets that in the era of gender equality, he demands that the other party first be upright, and it is clearly unfair to blindly talk about women.
Under this influence, the relationship with the lover often changes and eventually becomes a lonely family. I think this is also a tragic outcome. Hurting someone has already hurt them. If they don't become a couple, they will become enemies. Even lovers will feel ashamed and regretful for it. Why bother?
The fifth outcome: Sad peace
A man falls in love with a mistress, a mistress falls in love with a man, and a man finds it difficult to choose to leave his wife for a sense of responsibility.
After the public announcement, the wife chose silent acquiescence for the sake of the family, and the lover chose to continue loving each other in order to gain the love of the man. Therefore, a funny scene appeared, where one, three, five accompanied the lover, two, four, six accompanied the wife, and everyone continued to live peacefully, truly achieving the red flag on both sides not falling.
However, at this point, the most tired person may become a man, and the pressure can be imagined. So what should we do? Only one sentence can be sent: 'Take it on your own.'.
(Intern Editor: Zhao Minqing)
