Post Date December, 02 2023
As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. When in love, two people are like glue, feeling that the other person is good everywhere; But after getting married, both sides' shortcomings were exposed, and each other felt: 'She (he) is not the same as me!' This kind of emotional gap is larger, and the more conflicts after marriage. Therefore, both men and women should be mentally prepared before, during, and after marriage. It's not surprising that there is a gap in love after marriage, the key is how to treat it correctly.
Cui Bing and Wang Yi'ai got to know each other through a colleague's introduction. When they first started dating, neither of them could do without each other. Because the place where Wang Yiai works is relatively close to where Cui Bing lives, every time Wang Yiai leaves work late, she stays at Cui Bing's place and washes and cooks for Cui Bing. Their lives are very sweet.
After three years of love, Cui Bing and Wang Yiai got married. Before getting married, the two imagined their marriage life to be infinitely beautiful, even thinking about the names of their children. But after getting married, the marriage life of the two people underwent a "earth shattering" change. Cui Bing always complains that Wang Yi loves to nag, causing his ears to become calluses. Wang Yi Ai always complains that Cui Bing doesn't like cleanliness, and she can't stand Cui Bing smoking in the house now. The two of them often argue about such trivial matters.
Wang Yi'ai said, "Why is there such a big emotional gap between before and after marriage? Why does the man you love the most become so annoying after marriage
Daring to face reality leads to a gap after marriage
Before getting married, the two of them lived a relatively simple life, not considering many things or facing pots and pans. Therefore, life was relatively relaxed and happy, but this kind of life was a bit too idealistic; After marriage, two people have to face more practical problems. If they are not fully prepared, the couple will encounter many problems, leading to numerous conflicts. This is an important reason for the gap after marriage.
Prepare for the real life after marriage
Before getting married, two people should try to plan their marriage life well. Women should not fantasize about men giving romance every day, nor should they imagine men to be perfect. Men should not always dislike women's nagging. Try to treat her nagging as a concern for you, and the conflict between the two will become smaller.
The most important thing is for the couple to have a formal psychological mismatch after marriage, and not to let unfounded disputes become the trigger for their arguments. Only by learning to communicate and communicate can the couple form a virtuous cycle in their years of marriage and make it infinitely beautiful.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
