Extramarital love is not so easy and easy. Only those who contact with it will find the pain and pressure. Because extramarital love is a naked betrayal of marriage, family, responsibility, morality and other aspects. It can also be said that contact with extramarital love will produce a sense of guilt, which is not a burden that everyone can bear.
1、 The body and mind bear heavy stones of law, morality, responsibility and conscience
Extramarital love is an act of disloyalty to a spouse, and it affects their children. For those married women who have a strong traditional concept of marriage and family, have certain feelings between husband and wife, and have never cheated on themselves, the moral self-discipline of "do not do what you don't want to do to others" is still deep-rooted. It is difficult to treat their husbands and children with peace of mind, and often fall into the self-blame of conscience.
2、 Psychological anxiety and fear easily caused by lying for a long time
Extramarital love is basically negative, or intolerant, so she has to make up all kinds of lies to cover up extramarital love, both at home and abroad. The opportunities of "exposure" such as economic expenditure, time arrangement, restless face, subconscious reaction and words in dreams at night cannot be prevented. They have to be put off with lies, and they are always worried about their lies being exposed. The long lying made her exhausted and overwhelmed.
3、 Extramarital love affects the concept of love and makes feelings confused
In this extramarital affair, many women have moved their true feelings, but the extramarital lovers don't think so. They think it's good to keep the current extramarital love status. Women are puzzled about this, and sometimes even suspect that the other party is playing tricks on themselves. This leads to women's confusion about their feelings, and they can't figure out whether the people they love love love themselves or not, and whether the people who love themselves are sincere. As a result, I doubt love until I don't believe it and don't touch it.