Post Date December, 03 2023
What is the psychological state of married women? For a woman, when she deeply falls in love with a man, she will think of marrying him. For women with such thoughts, it is important to be well prepared, knowing that marriage is not an easy task, and to fully understand the other person's personality. If you marry without thinking, you may experience some abnormal psychology after marriage.
Reverse psychology
The so-called reverse psychology is a kind of opposite experience after the same kind of things that act on individuals exceed the threshold of individual sensory acceptance and saturate individual senses.
Performance is as follows: the less you can get, the more you want to get, and the more you want to touch something that you cannot touch. And once you get it, you don't cherish it anymore. The greater the external resistance and obstacles, the stronger the reverse psychology and the more powerful the pursuit. And once truly combined, the previously unreachable sense of urgency and competitiveness also disappears.
Drop psychology
The distance between ideals and reality creates an inner imbalance. Psychologists have come up with a formula: happy life=reality expectations. The meaning it expresses is that the degree of happiness in life depends on the difference between the actual value and the expected value. When the difference value is positive, life is happy and joyful; When the difference is zero, life appears relatively stable; When the difference is negative, one will feel pessimistic and disappointed.
Marriage has transformed the simple emotional relationship between the two sexes into an interdependent survival relationship. Previously, when in love, it was a coffee shop, restaurant, or tea room, but now it is the clanging of pots and pans. The issue of survival has also brought about new interpersonal relationships built on the basis of shared life, such as the relationships between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, father-in-law and son-in-law, sister-in-law and sister-in-law, etc. All of these have greatly reduced the actual score value, and there is a considerable distance between the expected value and the actual score, which creates a psychological gap, feeling lost and disappointed. The mystery disappeared. Mystery is an important factor that constitutes emotional attraction. It creates a hazy beauty like watching flowers in the mist or the moon in the water, arousing the imagination of lovers after parting, and has a great interest in exploring each other's personality answers.
In summary, in order to avoid such abnormal psychology, in addition to having sufficient understanding and preparation of the other party before marriage, there are also many things to pay attention to after marriage. At least two people should not get tired of each other every day, otherwise daily contact can easily lead to conflicts and dissatisfaction.
