Every man at all times and in all countries likes to flirt with flowers and plants. Before marriage, every man talks about being so extravagant, loyal to love, and the sea is dry and the rocks are crumbling. But why did the man still cheat after marriage? Many women have such doubts as to what makes men abandon their promises and lead them onto the path of cheating.
Emotional psychologists say that some young and middle-aged people seem to focus all their energy on deviant behaviors, even avoiding all responsibilities for themselves, their work, their family, and even society.
"They do not hesitate to be punished, transferred, demoted, or given a salary cut as a result, nor do they hesitate to sacrifice their marriage and indulge in repeated infidelities. These men seriously harm others or themselves, making their wives unbearable, and even causing psychological problems such as depression and insomnia.".
Is the strong desire of men for sexual exploitation really just a physiological reason? Emotional psychologists say that in fact, some of these men who frequently cheat have different levels of psychological disorders, and it is best to undergo detailed psychological and psychiatric examinations.
The emotional psychologist analyzed the mentality of these men and generally had these psychological characteristics:
1. They are people who pursue perfection and often set unrealistic standards for themselves. On the other hand, they lack the means to strengthen self-esteem and are particularly sensitive to the loss of self-esteem.
"They have a strong and radical view of the life they lead, so even a small setback can cause them great pain.".
"When they are emotionally disturbed, they tend to be dissolute, rather than relieving their psychological turmoil by calmly examining themselves and the situation they are in.".
When a female friend encounters such an unfaithful man, if you want to stay together and continue this love, female friends should be more considerate of the male's psychological barriers. Female friends should calmly handle this matter, control their emotions, give them more support and encouragement, and treat them as soon as possible.