Post Date December, 02 2023
After breaking up, couples often choose to truly disconnect from each other and live their own lives. "However, girls often do not really feel as easily able to let go of each other as boys do after falling in love, and even have a sentimental attachment to each other. However, boys have completely let go of girls at this time, so it is difficult for girls to regain their ex boyfriend after disconnecting, and the actions they take are" insignificant "for their ex boyfriend.". Therefore, when a girl wants to retrieve her ex boyfriend after disconnecting, the selection strategy is very important. It is not realistic for her to be foolish and wait for her ex boyfriend to return to her side. How should we do it?
1. Maintain a good mindset. Although the saying goes, "Men chase women across the mountain, women chase men through the veil." After all, in terms of the current situation, ex boyfriends occupy the active position, so girls will be relatively more difficult in the entire process, and even in many cases there will be a sense of self criticism and boredom in the inside. Therefore, girls must be fully prepared and maintain a good psychological state throughout the process. To understand: I have already paid a lot for this relationship, even if the final result is not satisfactory, but at least I have worked hard for my own happiness, it is no regret. Moreover, a good or bad mindset can have a direct impact on the outcome of your actions. Calm, calm, and thoughtful thinking are the key factors for winning the entire "war", and a good mindset is the starting point for these factors.
2. More in his world. "After disconnecting, some of your only contact information may no longer exist, but what you need to do is reappear in his world and let him feel your presence.". For example, if he has already blacklisted your number, it is advisable to change the number and set the alarm clock at 12:00 every night to send a text message on time. You can edit it first and press Send at 12:00. Remember not to send complex content. Send something about what happened today and what he needs, even if he doesn't respond. As long as he can see it, let him know that you are still wandering in his world.
3. Constantly enhance your charm and let him know in various ways. After disconnection, the network connection between you and your ex boyfriend is basically stagnant, but as long as both parties have not blocked it, you can take the following measures to stir up the ex boyfriend's heart. First, regular commuting and hard work; Dress up, change your hair style, change your clothes style, and occasionally explode into a place where your ex boyfriend can see. Second, work hard to learn cooking skills and pastries. After cooking, take a photo and send it to his mailbox. Add a warm sentence after it: "I want to take care of you and our parents in the future. I can't cook well, but I will work hard.". (Boys always have no resistance to girls who can cook and be filial. Seeing these changes from you, it is inevitable that they will feel a little moved.). Third, appropriate provocation measures should be taken. If your ex boyfriend has been indifferent, it's best to indirectly tell him about other boys' recent behavior by hanging out or texting him. It's best to make him feel a little jealous and take action against you.
The above is a post about successfully recovering an ex boyfriend through disconnection. You can also take a look at similar posts: the experience of disconnecting with your boyfriend twice and finally successfully reuniting.
