Post Date December, 02 2023
My mood is very complex and helpless, like knocking over a bottle of Chinese medicine. I believe everyone has read an article online that states that it is immoral for my husband to be infertile and my mother-in-law to have a child with him. What I never expected was that my foolish husband would want me to have a child with him.
I have been married to my husband for a year, and during that time, we have always been very affectionate. We are model couples in the eyes of our friends, and my husband has always been very kind to me. After getting married, we thought we would always be happy. Who knows, after six months of marriage, I couldn't conceive a baby and took my husband to have a check-up. The result was my husband's problem because I have always loved babies and we are not young, so we have been troubled by this problem. My husband went to major hospitals and used any folk remedies that were effective, but the results were still disappointing.
Because my husband is an only child, my father-in-law and mother-in-law have been urging me all the time. They have always been eager to have grandchildren, so they have been giving him many folk remedies to eat. However, it turned out to be a mistake. My husband's health is getting worse, and our relationship with me is getting worse. My husband's temper is also getting worse, and our words are starting to run out. Until a week ago, my husband told me that there was an article online, which was about my daughter-in-law and father-in-law, and they also successfully conceived. Why don't you give it a try? I was confused. I said that artificial insemination is possible, but there's no need to do it. As a result, my husband said that the baby may not be smart, and artificial insemination is not good, what kind of thing. I was angry at the time, how could I do such a thing and ignore my husband.
Today, my husband actually told me that it's better to turn off the light and then you put on an eye mask. At first, I came, and then, He really likes babies. But I can't, I can't accept this. My husband changed his mind after I mentioned it.
But I haven't had any children, what should I do? If this continues, my relationship will definitely break down, and I can't stay at home anymore. I would like to ask why families with infertile husbands should have children.
Actually, I plan to conceive through artificial insemination, and this husband also agrees. But the price of sperm in the sperm bank is not cheap. And then it feels strange to be pregnant with someone else's child.
Finally, I plan to adopt one, whether it's relatives or friends, or go to a welfare home to get one. But I hope to investigate what kind of parents the child is before receiving it. After all, genetic factors are quite significant. I don't want to adopt a child with a genetic disease, and for my turbulent family, I can no longer afford to struggle.
