Post Date December, 03 2023
Whether a couple's sexual life is harmonious directly affects their emotions. Among the factors that affect marital sexual harmony, not only are male reasons, but a large part of the reasons are from women. According to the survey, more than half of women aged 40 to 50 suffer from sexual dysfunction.
Female endocrine function affects sexual function
"Men have sexual problems, as do women, which correspond to each other." Therefore, experts call for active coordination and treatment when either partner has sexual dysfunction. Physiological diseases are an important cause of sexual dysfunction in women. Firstly, female endocrine function is an important factor affecting their sexual function. Disorders in endocrine function can lead to problems such as vaginal dryness, affecting sexual activity.
Experts also pointed out that when the wife has no endocrine problems or external genital inflammation, if she still has sexual arousal and other dysfunction during sexual intercourse, she can use some drugs to treat male erectile dysfunction under the guidance of a doctor to help treat it. The main role of these drugs is to help expand blood vessels and blood circulation.
There is a relationship between female psychological factors and sexual function
In addition to physiological reasons, there is also a close relationship between female sexual dysfunction and psychological factors. For example, previous experiences of sexual disharmony and incorrect understanding of sex may affect women's attitudes towards sex at the psychological level.
Subjective arousal disorder: Lack of or significant decrease in sensation of various types of sexual arousal (sexual excitement and pleasure). However, other physical reaction signs still appear.
Sexual aversion: Extreme anxiety or aversion when anticipating or attempting sexual activity.
For a lasting marriage, don't stick together forever
A perfect and lasting marriage should be a warm and essential oil. The tone is sweet and strong love, which harmonizes respect, understanding, and tolerance, while embellishing countless warm feelings and overflowing with fragrance.
Huang Weiren, a professor at Northwestern University's School of Medicine, has a reputation as "Doctor of Love.". In his book "The Secret of Living in Love", he pointed out that different understanding of marriage between the sexes leads to different satisfaction with marriage. Often when a husband gives a score of 7 for marital satisfaction, the wife only gives a score of 2. This is called the "temperature difference" in marriage. "Those who are willing to maintain their marriage need to have an objective understanding of their current marital status. Measuring the temperature of a marriage is a good method."
Some wives are too clingy, treating their husbands as "private property" and wishing to get bored together every day, demanding control of each other's every move, keeping the temperature of marriage at a high point. This psychological dependence precisely indicates that the wife's heart is empty or immature, and they hope that the other party can unconditionally accept themselves anytime, anywhere, and put themselves in the first place. However, in the adult world, using any form of coercion to meet one's psychological needs is not feasible.
And sometimes, the temperature of marriage can drop to freezing point. In this kind of marriage, the couple will avoid conflict for a long time, do not communicate when things happen, and the resentment in their hearts becomes deeper and deeper, eventually becoming "ice like meeting". There is an old saying in China that "grief is no greater than death of the heart." Couples avoid conflict because conflict can bring pain to both sides. But in the long run, it takes a lot of effort to heal marriage.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
