Because we can make each other more sexual and stay away from sexual numbness through interesting methods. People who are engaged in sexual activity should fully enjoy and revel in the beauty of this human being. Enjoy it slowly with your lover! Many people believe that male sexual problems are ED (male Erectile dysfunction) or premature ejaculation. In fact, men in modern society have increasingly common problems. How does sexual numbness occur and how should it be resolved? Three reasons cause sexual numbness. In the 1980s, when men talked about sensitive topics, many men walked on the street and saw beautiful women who might have an erection.
However, nowadays men have no feelings for their beautiful girlfriends and wives, and the frequency of sexual activity has significantly decreased, which may not be related to the decline in sexual ability. Professor Jiang said that sexual numbness has physiological numbness and should seek medical help. The other is social and cultural numbness, which can be roughly divided into three reasons.
One is the suppression of excessive sexual supply. Twenty years ago, the common phenomenon in China was a severe shortage of sexual supply, where sex was objectively suppressed, bound, and denied, which to some extent caused a sense of mystery about sex and people's abnormal sensitivity to it. In recent years, social tolerance has become more and more abundant, and male and female interactions have increased. Many young people have relaxed their gender norms. Sex has become more common in people's lives, resulting in numbness.
The second is the Psychological stress caused by competition. The pressure of work and life makes some busy office workers pay less attention to sex life. If the sexual stimulus signal does not work for a long time, it will damage a person's performance. Work pressure is a major manufacturer of sexual numbness and should be taken seriously. Professor Jiang emphasized that in addition to men, women with high education, high income, and high positions are more likely to experience sexual numbness and bear greater pressure than men.
Thirdly, it is worth noting that the period of "aesthetic fatigue" among spouses is becoming increasingly early in modern times. A survey shows that the marriage crisis is approaching the aesthetic fatigue of three years after marriage, approaching from the seven-year itch. After three years of marriage, as both parties understood each other thoroughly, the differences in various aspects began to be emphasized, and the novelty quickly disappeared. The days are dull every day, and the sexual enthusiasm is also getting weaker and weaker.
Sexual numbness is a major enemy of sexual life. The harm of sexual numbness mainly lies in three aspects. Firstly, sexual boredom affects the harmony and beauty of sexual life for couples, and has an impact on their daily lives. Secondly, as soon as sexual numbness occurs within marriage, it opens up a gap for extramarital love, leading to a lack of sexual activity and causing one spouse to fall out of love. In addition, men are bored and tired of sex life, which can reduce Sexual arousal until impotence. Many people with a strong sense of resistance believe that sexual well-being cannot be achieved without the improvement of sexual technology. After the onset of sexual numbness, they hope to solve it by improving sexual technology. But be moderate. The true meaning of sex is love, love, and when love is strong, one should understand and want to be broad.
On the contrary, short love and astringency, with higher technology, can only get Orgasm of certain technology, which cannot completely solve sexual numbness. To avoid sexual numbness, we should have a sense of resistance. We should learn to adapt to various temptations and reduce stress. Professor Jiang emphasized that overcoming sexual numbness requires sincere emotions. The connotation of love is very rich, and lust is only one part of it. If love is the only foundation of love, it is what Jia Baoyu referred to as excessive skin lust. In this case, there will naturally be a lot of supply, and numbness will soon appear.
Therefore, the way to break free from sexual numbness is to explore the aesthetic space of sexual love. Because in terms of sexuality, the space for exploring sexual love through technology is very limited, and the space for exploring emotions is infinite. When couples are socializing alone, they can have a candlelight dinner, travel to the countryside, and enjoy sex leisurely. Doing so will have unexpected effects. Keeping away from sexual numbness is a simple thing. Because we can use interesting methods to make each other sexual. People who are engaged in sexual activity should fully enjoy and revel in the beauty of this human being. Enjoy it slowly with your lover!