The relationship between the two people broke down, and the girl proposed to break up, but the boy still loved each other. The reason can be a disagreement between the personalities of both parties, or it may be due to some minor matter, or a third party has appeared. How can you recover your ex girlfriend? "After crying, it hurts too, but it doesn't help. Is it impossible to save your girlfriend after breaking up? In fact, if you use the right methods, you can still save your girlfriend?".
1、 Calm down, remember not to give up after breaking up
After a girl proposes to break up with you, you may be very sad and sad, even washing your face with tears all day and unable to eat. Some people even think of committing suicide. Sadness is certain, but it is very foolish to go too far. A girl will not come back to you because of your sadness, nor will she continue to be with you because of your self abandonment. She does not need a coward. The correct approach for you should first be to calm down and restore your previous state of life.
2、 Telling is always the best way to excrete
"I'm not asking you to find your girlfriend to tell me, but to find your friend. By telling her, you can truly calm down and analyze what's wrong with yourself.". The best thing is to find someone around you who is very good at picking up girls, and he will tell you the reason.
3、 Never make repeated mistakes again
When a girl sees you making a mistake, she may also give you the opportunity to think that you may correct it, but if the same mistake is repeatedly made, she will think you are incurable. The reason for proposing a breakup is definitely because you made a mistake or did something wrong. All problems are caused by finding a reason from yourself. Change it to your previous mistake and change the way you looked before, and you will be able to bring your girlfriend back to you again.
4、 Remember not to pester each other and give both parties a little time to think calmly
Many men begin to tangle with their girlfriend as soon as they hear her say goodbye, saying "I love you", apologizing, and the like. Girls may also be upset about this matter at this time and want to think about it carefully. Seeing you like this, they feel like they have done it right. This is how people like you are, and you create an irreversible situation. "At the beginning of a breakup, you should disconnect from each other for a period of time, but the intersection you should have between you should be preserved.".
5、 Create a confident self
At any time, confident men are attractive to women. If you were not confident enough before, then try to make yourself confident. If you've been a bit confident before, make yourself more confident. Even after breaking up, you need to make the other person feel that you are still a confident man and you are still full of charm. Find more friends to play with, occasionally exercise, and have more entertainment to make your life more colorful. Of course, you have to understand what kind of men women really need.
6、 Expand secondary attraction
Through the intersection that you should have, your ex girlfriend shows your life style to her. If she sees other girls like you, or feels that you and other girls can naturally be happy together, she will want to save you. If you let her feel that your life has changed, she will start to become curious about you again, and slowly start to be attracted to you. Next, you can deepen the relationship step by step as before.