Post Date December, 03 2023
Men are especially face-loving, and those with high self-esteem are often hurt by something that seems small. According to a survey, most men are most afraid of the following six things in their lives. Now let's take a look at what men are most afraid of in their self-esteem.
1、 Be ridiculed as timid
Since ancient times, it has been said that heroes save beauty, but men all like beauty, so in the eyes of men, they all want to be a hero admired by beauty.
It is a pity that we are a civilized society, so there are not so many beauties who need men to act as flower protectors with strong bodies.
However, this does not mean that men will give up their heroic dreams. For men, ridiculing their timidity is nothing more than an irony that they are not enough men, which is an insult to them.
2、 People are critical of their appearance
I always thought that only women care about their appearance, but men also care. Recently, a friend has made a girlfriend, and he has always felt that his standard figure is not strong enough to give his girlfriend enough sense of security.
In fact, what he said from his girlfriend is that the man in her family is still a little muscular, so the man's lack of confidence in his appearance often comes from his psychological pressure. In fact, what women care about is not how tall, strong and handsome the man is, but how sincere the man is to her.
However, it is said that men care about other people's evaluation of their looks because they are confident about their genes. Just like those short men always want to find a tall woman, they want to make up for their shortcomings by complementing each other. Therefore, if a woman is critical of a man's looks, it will be understood by men that he is not optimistic about his genes.
3、 Praise another man in his face
Just as women don't want men to praise another woman in front of them, men also care that women praise another man in front of him, even if the man is a woman's relative or a man's friend.
Men can't stand it. When a woman is with him, she praises another man desperately. This makes a man feel that you are looking down on him, and it is also a very retarded practice.
Think about it. Most men love face, especially in front of their beloved women, and most of them want to be affirmed by the other side. When you praise another man in front of him, you are just telling him that there is another man who is better than him. If this man is still recognized by him, who can tolerate it?
4、 Be exposed
It's also a matter of face, but also a matter of being human. Just think if a woman is exposed that you had a double eyelid operation at a certain time and place on a certain day, I think it would also be very uncomfortable at that time? The so-called "beating people without beating their faces", "swearing without exposing their shortcomings" and "exposing their shortcomings" are originally villainous behaviors. Even the most intimate lovers should not easily step into this forbidden zone.
As a smart woman, she should know when to be silent.
It is always the highest state in life to be confused. A straightforward person is always easy to offend others. A man's failure is like a scar. It only needs to be left to the man to lick it slowly. What a woman should do is learn to make her memory worse.
5、 Open private life
I still remember that I knew a woman before and always liked to tell her husband about the relationship between her and her husband. When I washed my husband's underwear one day, but it was blown away on the balcony, I bought several cans of soda and rolls of toilet paper today, and I had to go to his husband for reimbursement at night. Even his husband would snore at night.
Everyone has two sides, and her husband is also a person with some social status. Many people support her after her predecessors. In his own home, all men will disarm and restore their true self. At the moment, he is also defenseless, digging his nose and scratching his scalp.
If a woman takes the secret between you and him as a conversation, for a man, it is like exposing his weakness and weakness to others. He will feel betrayed by others, and will be excluded from you to show his true side.
6、 SEX performance
Every man wants to be able to maintain his strength and ease up and down, but when men are always weak, women's attitude towards men will greatly affect their future performance. What is particularly bad is that some women also like to publicize the personal addiction between husband and wife. It is not all physical problems that men can't do, but psychological problems. Women's ridicule is the cause of men's "psychological failure".
For example, the woman I mentioned earlier, her husband doesn't go home for three days or two. Everyone knows what's going on. Because she has been married for many years and has not had children, she is afraid of being laughed at, so she publicizes everywhere that her husband is not good in bed. I think it is more serious for a man not to be able to do it in bed than not to have money. So the man openly took a young and beautiful woman out of pairs and told everyone that he is not "no", but he has no "sexual interest" for his wife.
As a woman, if you have a man you love deeply, read this article and know what they are most afraid of. In life, you must avoid these things from appearing in your life and his life.
