Men born in the 1970s are in a period of role transformation, which is the golden stage of both career and family harvests. However, many successful men in the 1970s still choose to be single. They may have too much impatience and bitterness, or it may be an escape from responsibility. Regardless of the outcome, they are all enjoying their own lives, and also facing the challenge of advice from family and friends. When analyzed, being single undoubtedly has the following nine main reasons.
1. A wait-and-see player.
Cohabitation is possible, but it is absolutely not advisable to discuss major marital issues, including those who have been cohabiting for a long time. Some people who have been cohabiting for many years are unwilling to mention marriage. If their girlfriend suggests it, they will find a reasonable and grand reason for her to wait. This is a typical wait-and-see type of player for men born in the 1970s, where we are in the bowl and still looking at the pot.
Most men born in the 1970s are more rational about marriage issues and also more obedient to their parents' opinions. After all, men in that era had a deep sense of obedience to the big picture, which often hurt themselves. After a serious emotional blow, they no longer have the confidence to love.
2. Afraid of taking responsibility.
This type of post-70s man has his own small plan, with a clear target for attack, but it has not yet been successful. Therefore, he procrastinates first. If successful, he changes the target for attack. If unsuccessful, he casually finds a woman in front of him, and is seriously afraid of taking responsibility and stealing opportunities.
3. A woman without true love.
It's easy to like a woman, but this kind of liking can never reach the level of love. It's just like, so we can only choose to talk, chat, cohabit for a period of time, and then talk about whether we can get married, and ultimately choose to be single. Men born in the 1970s are inherently fragile and generally do not believe in true love.
4. There is too much life pressure.
In modern society, the main pressure comes not only from work but also from life. Faced with the challenges of marriage, it is not as simple as making friends. It is necessary to solve a series of practical problems such as houses and cars, and these pressures of life can make men choose to give up marriage.
5. There is not enough funds.
In addition to a house and a car, it is more important to have sufficient funds to live. From the moment when we are about to bid farewell to being single, we need to spend money to cultivate relationships. The preparation work between marriages is basically accompanied by money, and the life after marriage naturally cannot live without sufficient funds.
Perhaps many men born in the 1970s have already talked about many girlfriends, including those who cohabit. When faced with the sensitive term of marriage, they always cannot bear to quickly bury themselves, so they start to nitpick and pick one after another. In the end, what they like is not suitable for others, and what others like is not liked by themselves.
6. For the so-called learning and career.
I thought I had no end to learning and had been in a state of constant learning. As a result, I pursued a bachelor's degree in a vocational college, followed by a master's degree. After finishing my master's degree, I still wanted to pursue a doctoral degree, but I was already in my thirties. I had just started working and didn't want to mention getting married. In order to have more choices in the future, I have been in a waiting state.
Obviously, they do not want to get married, prefer celibacy, enjoy freedom, do not like being constrained by others, and do not need the constraints of life. Especially married men, of course, are not as free as unmarried, so most of the celibates in the 1970s are more selfish.