Post Date December, 02 2023
Who said that jealousy is a woman's patent? Men are still jealous, and women need not be less jealous.
Since ancient times, heroes and heroines have mostly been the roles of rivers, mountains and beauties. Otherwise, we would not be able to understand the poetry of "a crown of anger is a beauty". At that time, Wu Sangui wanted Li Zicheng to "enroll". When he heard that his dream lover Chen Yuanyuan was occupied by Liu Zongmin, the senior general under his brother Zicheng, he was angry and commanded the army to return to Shanhaiguan, and a bloody killing set the stage. Although it is somewhat one-sided to understand the famous long narrative poem "Yuan Yuan Qu" by Wu Weiye, the poet of Fu She in this way, there is no doubt that the "waves of vinegar rise in the sea" of Sangui is obvious.
This is true of heroes and heroes, as well as grassroots people. No matter how open-minded, forthright, refined and ambitious a man is, he is absolutely superior to women in love. To sum up, men have two tendencies and six manifestations of jealousy.
1、 Outbreak. This tendency is mainly manifested in extroverted men, with three manifestations:
(1) Manic. He was restless when eating vinegar. He refused to recognize his relatives. He smashed tables and chairs, threw things, and looked like he was going to eat people.
(2) Duel. Of course, it is not the sword to sword duel of medieval gladiators, but the modern duel is to show strength to the other side. A jealous man may become a shopaholic at this time. You give her a ring, I give her a diamond; You give her BMW, I give her Ferrari... etc. This kind of duel is even more a kind of strange and jealous contest.
(3) Injury. Extrovert men are more likely to choose this type of revenge. The first object of injury is the man who wears a green hat for himself; The second is the woman she is still in love with. "The net is broken and everything is damaged. Nobody can get what I can't get." This is the ultimate thinking mode of extroverted men.
2、 Introverted depression type. This tendency is mainly manifested in introverted men, and also has three manifestations:
(1) Paranoia. This kind of man can't listen to the advice, and the following questions always hover in his mind: Why did she treat me like this? What am I sorry for her? I work hard, why can't I win her heart? This kind of man will not review himself, and cannot get out of the ox's horn.
(2) Entanglement. This is a kind of man who is sticky and frightening. He is not good at expressing, but he can't throw away an idea: I love her, I don't marry her. In order to achieve his goal, he will take the method of chasing and blocking women, including her relatives.
(3) Self-harm. The most powerful way for introverted men to be jealous is to self-harm. They include cutting wrists, piercing ear holes and nose holes, tattooing the names of lovers on the arms, etc. Some even take drugs and become self-destructive, turning themselves into a seemingly disgruntled "hippie" and "marginal person".
Men's jealousy is not a good thing. It is harmful to the construction of a harmonious family, a harmonious community and a harmonious society. Therefore, women should try to avoid making men jealous. When men's jealousy begins to rise, they should explain, explain and appease them as soon as possible. It is really "casting pearls before swine". They should also continue to play. At the same time, they should learn to calm down, brake with silence, and make sense when the men recover. It is unthinkable to throw yourself into the "vinegar sea"!
(Intern editor: Zhao Minqing)
