Should boyfriend be forgiven for cheating? For a girl in love, there is nothing more painful than a boyfriend cheating. In the face of the betrayal of a loved one, some people will feel unbearable, while others feel forgivable. Can a man who is cheating still want it? Cheating is an emotional accident that happens in love, and many people, especially men, change their minds after breaking up. The return of the man who is cheating is worthy of forgiveness.
What should I do when I meet a man who is cheating?
First of all, if you feel that he has left you out for a long time, don't take the initiative to contact you, or even don't answer the phone or answer the short message, you should be more vigilant at this time. This may be the sign before the split.
We should dare to face up to this problem, do not escape, do not make up all kinds of reasons and possibilities to deceive ourselves, and do not want to face the reality. This is one of the biggest taboos. Don't hold the last "hope" and let yourself be hurt again and again. It's really unnecessary
When you really recognize the facts, and the man is not a gentleman, you must not be weak again at this time. Don't pretend not to know. Talk openly with him. It is best to make things clear.
If he is really frank, then you should not linger on what, and don't ask why, details and so on. There is no need to say good-bye and start your new life. But if he prevaricates and makes excuses for you, you should be careful, or he hesitates to choose between you two, or he still doesn't admit his mistakes. Believe in your heart, despise him severely, and turn away.
Girl, if you really meet such a scum man, don't complain and don't be discouraged. It's not life that makes people grow, but experience. The old one is indifferent to you, but now you are too high. Please live proudly, have your own dignity and backbone, and really find your own happiness.
You must know the 20 abnormal behaviors of men after cheating
1. He is obviously more concerned and concerned about you than usual, especially those aspects where he has not invested any attention before. For example, he suddenly proposes to go shopping with you (he hates shopping the most), and invites a friend of yours to have dinner with him (he hates you the most).
Analysis: This is a manifestation of his guilt, which usually occurs at the earliest stage of "change of heart". It is a subconscious compensation psychology, mainly to make him feel better.
2. He began to buy gifts for you inexplicably, but he himself is not a romantic or love to please you.
3. He suddenly becomes moody and often has nothing to do with. No matter what you do, he can always pick out bones from eggs and treat you with a "provocative" attitude all day.
Analysis: This is the reaction of a person in a state of heartache. He subconsciously knows that he is "wrong", so if you can prove that you are "wrong", then psychologically he will have a feeling of "even".
4. Some of his behaviors will make you feel suspicious. Maybe you can't tell exactly what is wrong, but you just feel "strange". At this time, you might as well trust women's intuition!
5. As long as you "fight back" and sometimes even just act like a coquette, he immediately says, "Let's break up; let's end". He has no intention of communicating with you or proposing any solution to the problem.
6. As long as you want to leave him for a period of time, such as business trip, "going back to his mother's home" or traveling with friends, he will appear inexplicably excited. Of course, it is not the feeling of "farewell", but becomes more emotional, such as constantly helping you prepare your luggage, being overly concerned about the journey, or showing exaggerated depression.
7. I am indifferent and don't like to talk or communicate. But when you think about it carefully, there is nothing that bothers him!
8. The grade changes suddenly. He began to enjoy different music, movies, books, participate in different fitness clubs, and even care about things that he did not want to pay attention to before, such as entertainment stars, cats and dogs, and so on.
9. Suddenly began to be confident.
Analysis: If you don't find that there are other things that stimulate his self-confidence (such as promotion), he may have obtained psychological satisfaction from the aspect of "man's charm".
10. He began to pick on you and announced loudly that "I hate this kind of thing most", but he may have "forgotten". This pickiness is exactly what he liked most about you.
11. Have no interest in the "close contact" between the two people, and would rather watch TV alone at night and wait for you to sleep first or simply work overtime.
12. Keep talking about sex, which you have never tried.
13. Use new words, tell different jokes and express different opinions.
14. Start to hold you to discuss topics that you are obviously not good at, such as sports, such as cars. As long as you show confusion and ignorance, you will start to laugh and show disgust and disdain.
15. He began to care about protecting his spiritual privacy. After changing the password, you were not allowed to touch any of his objects.
16. When you are especially good to him, he will show shame and dodge inexplicably, and do not know how to face you.
17. Mention someone's name more than once in dreams.
18. When I open my eyes in the morning and see you or your surroundings, I look confused and surprised.
19. Your friends began to ask you how you have been recently.
20. You have less and less influence on him. In the past, he would ask for your opinions on work, dealing with friends and shopping, but now even if you take the initiative to put forward some good suggestions, he will not take them to heart.