Post Date December, 02 2023
Up to now, I can't believe that my husband is such a person
I have been together with my husband for more than four years. I think that even if a man is cheating, it should be more than ten years later. We have only been married for two years. This year, our children and I have just full moon.
My sister wants to go to college far away, so I asked my husband to take her to school. As a result, I didn't get to the train last night, so I had to stay in a hotel for one night. Because there were so many people at the railway station, my husband only bought a room (I don't know if he intended to). There was only one bed in one room, so my sister and my husband slept one head each. Last night, my sister sent a message to my sister that she was afraid, and my husband fumbled on her, She is so scared. My sister's mobile phone is right here with me. When I see the message, I can't believe my husband will do such a thing. I always trust him too much. I want to cry without tears.
One is my favorite sister, and the other is my favorite husband. But now the child is still so young and the husband is so lecherous. What should I do in the future? Is it divorce now? I'm hesitating. I'm so conflicted. My sister also knows. What should I do?
My husband came to my house to be my son-in-law. The family had been happy and harmonious, but now what should I do? What I can't stand most is that my husband should hurt me like this and treat me like this. Isn't it more rampant outside then? My sister, who has been cheated by him, dare not say it, pretending to be asleep without knowing it, and only dare to say to my sister, I really hate my husband. Now, I really hate him. What should I do?
Reply:
Hello, friend. For this matter, you must talk frankly with your husband, but don't make it public. After all, your sister has just grown up and can't resist negative comments from outside and mental attacks. Therefore, it is necessary for you to warn your husband in private.
Secondly, your husband, as a door-to-door son-in-law, should have some psychological imbalance. Therefore, in marriage, try to respect your husband. When dealing with things, you should not be self-centered and "hegemonic". If your husband has been "oppressed" for a long time, which makes him feel depressed in his heart, he is likely to have hatred towards your family and even form distorted psychology.
In other words, when your husband touches your sister-in-law, it not only exposes his lust, but also reflects his dissatisfaction with your family. As the saying goes, those who do good will get good results, and those who do evil will get bad results. Only when your family treats your husband well will your husband treat your family with gratitude.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
