Mr. Qian Zhongshu regards marriage as a small city, but the people inside escape, while the people outside want to rush in.
As the saying goes, marriage is the tomb of love! Is it true that marriage kills beautiful love?
Sometimes love can be a personal affair. You can love each other unilaterally without asking for any return; Love can also make the other party love you, but you don't have to respond to others. The form of love is romantic and beautiful, while marriage is the daily necessities of life, consisting of countless ordinary moments.
Because of the complexity of love and marriage, until now, no one dares to say that they understand true love or thoroughly understand marriage.
In the world view of love, the essence of love is relatively simple. Love and lovesickness, mutual appreciation and attraction, whether the attraction point is good or bad, happiness and simplicity have always been the theme song of love.
In the essence of marriage, understanding and trust can make marriage continue. Marriage will gradually make love ordinary, trivial matters in marriage will slowly replace romance, and complexity and monotony will become the general appearance of marriage.
In love, if you don't love each other, you can quickly get away, and the cost of loss will be relatively small; Marriage is not. If you don't love, you will become incomprehensive and distrustful. You will try your best to accommodate the other party, find a lot of reasons for the other party, and try to prove that the other party still loves you.
Is there no love, beauty and romance in marriage?
In fact, marriage is not the end of love, but the starting point of love. Marriage is less romantic and considerate in love, but there are more family-like concerns hidden in it. Romance in marriage does not often appear, but every appearance will make you warm.
Love depends on fate, and it needs greater fate and luck to form a family with each other, as well as an unswerving determination.
A certificate can't prove anything, but it can prove that it gives you the greatest guarantee. In marriage, sometimes two people will have different contradictions, and sometimes they will quarrel because of their values. In the end, no matter what, they will still care about each other.
Marriage is a witness of responsibility. This heavy sense of responsibility will not affect the feelings of both parties, but will bring them closer and closer.
A long life, two people in marriage have more trust and sincerity. Change for each other, and change for yourself. Refine more advanced romance from fuel, rice, oil and salt, and let simple and happy daily life replace ordinary romance.
Marriage is not the end of love, let alone the grave, but the starting point of love. Can you spend your life with your beloved? Isn't this ordinary and romantic life the most desirable?