Post Date November, 17 2024
Women often sigh that modern men are really difficult to serve, and all of them are "Chen Shimei". Why do men always like the new and dislike the old, and have a fickle heart? Why do men always enjoy extramarital affairs and prefer to take risks while playing this balance game? Men would rather play extramarital affairs at the cost of their own family, but in fact, there is a push in their hearts that is causing harm. They have been searching for physical and mental explosiveness.
Several Psychology of Men Seeking Extramarital Love
Finding a relationship - Some men view their lover as a better marriage partner, but this proportion is relatively small. After a life and death love affair, there are often complex emotional backgrounds, and such an affair leads to a relatively high proportion of divorces.
Sexual satisfaction - This is the biggest "gain" for men in extramarital affairs, and most extramarital affairs involve the nature of sexual transactions. Men with normal sexual life treat extramarital affairs as curiosity; Men who are not satisfied with their sexual life transfer and vent their sexual desire through extramarital affairs.
Finding a romantic partner - Many men emphasize that the reason they fall in love with their lover is because she is gentler, more beautiful, and cares about themselves than their first wife. They want to find a better woman. What we look for in our lover is a temperament, style, and style that is different from our wife's. We like our partner to bring a bit of mystery and allure, while our wives are already quite familiar with each other due to their long-term living together, without the beauty of distance. Our lover happens to meet their psychological needs.
Looking for Youth - People usually think that only women care about their age, and they are passionate about using makeup, clothing, beauty, and physical fitness to cover up the traces of time. In fact, men also care about whether they are still young, energetic, and charming, which is also a competitive capital for men.
Identity search - usually only wealthy men can afford to find a lover. In the eyes of some people, the lover has become a symbol of status and status, just like villas, luxury cars, and designer clothing. Beautiful lovers seem to have become a live advertisement for influential men.
The Valentine's Standard for Men's Extramarital Love
1、 Being with him requires absolute dedication
No matter what purpose you are getting along with each other, the moment you are together in ecstasy, he is emotional. Please don't pretend, so that we can create harmony together.
2、 You can't have another man
Although extramarital affairs do not have the innocence of "passing the house", they have a sour taste like old vinegar. If you have an affair with someone else, except for your current husband and boyfriend, it will cause his jealousy to boil over and even fight against you.
3、 It can only be an underground situation
Please make it clear to all female friends that your colleague will not let you see him, and even the less information you know about him, the better. Due to his constant reluctance to acknowledge your existence, he is afraid of setting himself on fire after exposure.
4、 Please agree to his bedridden dream
After a successful man becomes passionate with you, the deepest part of his heart rises with repentance for his ruined wife and children. At this moment, please do not violate his dreams, as this is a rare expression of his true feelings.
5、 Good gathering and good separation, not being friends after breaking up
As the saying goes, there is no banquet that never ends in the world. Extramarital affairs have a cycle and will gradually fade away. When we break up, it's as quiet as when we met. Please accept your fate. Don't commit suicide or make noise at home, as that will only prevent you from getting married or living a normal life in the future.
I believe many female friends have a certain standard for men to find underground lovers. When a man with a family shows love to you, don't be easily deceived by his sweet words. Be sure to open your eyes, because he may only be looking for excitement in his own life, not what he says is "true love". I hope it can be helpful to everyone.
