Post Date December, 02 2023
Couples have been together for a long time, and it's inevitable to bump and argue. When these situations arise, couples should promptly and correctly solve these problems. If not resolved properly, it will affect the relationship between husband and wife, creating a sense of separation and disgust between them. So, how should couples get along to avoid the situation of a small itch every three years and a big itch every seven years?
Let go of your male chauvinism
Nowadays, both spouses have their own jobs, so their time at home is almost equal. If women have to take care of all the household chores after working hard at the company for a whole day, it is easy for them to complain. Times have changed, and men should abandon their male chauvinism and give up their old concept of "male dominated outside and female dominated inside". They should equally share cooking and childcare work. Husbands should understand that the true "man" in people's hearts today is a man who can work well outside, manage his family well inside, and be both firm and gentle.
Speak less of the word 'divorce'
The word 'divorce' is like a curse, saying too much will come true. In marital life, it is normal for couples to argue, and what both parties need to do is how to handle these conflicts and make the big and small matters smaller. When friction occurs, it is important not to mention divorce immediately. Be careful not to say harsh words that will make you regret in the future, and do not hold grudges against the other party. You should know that when a husband or wife encounters difficulties and misfortunes, they should support and rely on each other. After passing the most difficult stage, the marital relationship will be stronger and sweeter.
Don't have a 'double heart'
The couple is both a whole and an independent individual. They are interested in their own upbringing, family, and social circle, so there will be various situations that arise. When most problems arise, don't have a second heart and distinguish between your husband's and mother's families very clearly. Both spouses should understand each other, think about each other's thoughts, and be anxious about each other's anxieties, so that the relationship can be strong. One party needs help at home, and the other party should do their best to support it.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
